The following is a transcript of a special interview conducted
by Michael Dresser, host of The
Michael Dresser Show with Roberta Jewell, author of
My Way Out, on May 22, 2005.
Michael: Roberta, what exactly is the My Way Out program
about and how did it come about?
Roberta: Well, as I've often said, I never ever intended to
write a book and in terms of recovery books, this one probably breaks
every rule. About how you treat drinkers-specifically problem drinkers.
I mean, while this program can be helpful to anyone who is alcohol
dependent, it is specifically tailored to problem drinkers, people
who are often able to navigate through the day, are highly functional,
they get through the week undetected by those around them They are
not falling down drunk, blacking out, that sort of thing. But they
are in terrible pain and are dealing with a horrible and dangerous
health problem.
This population of drinker represents millions of people. There are
four problem drinkers for ever hard core alcoholic. That's a staggering
statistic. And they are often unwilling to come out of the closet
and get help. They don't feel they fit the traditional alcoholic profile,
so they do not seek traditional treatment. But they are desperate
for help. I know this because I was one of them. I was this highly
functional problem drinker. I went to work, I did my job, I was respected
by my peers, I had a great career, a wonderful marriage, I had kids
who I adored, I was involved in the PTA, all that stuff. On the surface
I seemed just fine. But I was literally killing myself. Every night
I went home and I would drink and drink and I could not stop. I would
make promises to the kids that I couldn't remember later. I would
argue and become irrational with my husband
I would wake up in
the morning with this throbbing and pain behind my eyes. I started
missing work more frequently, and when I was at work, I was often
less productive that I could have been. I was gaining weight, my health
began to suffer. And I simply could not stop drinking, no matter how
hard I tried. I knew I was going downhill.
By the way, problem drinkers may behave in different ways-I drank
every day
I couldn't imagine getting through the day without
a drink, but you also have your binge drinkers. They may go through
the week, or even longer without touching a drop, but when they start,
they cannot stop-they also have a very serious problem and need help.
Anyway, I had tried for so many years to control the craving, but
I just couldn't, I had read everything I could get my hands on, I
researched the subject like crazy. And ironically, I was known for
my skills as a highly proficient researcher. I'd even self- experimented
with many different therapies that were out there, but nothing worked.
Michael Dresser: So what is it that changed for you?
Well, it wasn't until I developed this program-and I did this for
myself, I never intended this for anyone but me-but I combined a number
of different therapies: a new anti-craving medication, powerful self-hypnosis,
a blend of nutritional supplements, herbs and amino acids specifically
tailored to address alcohol craving, and a simple diet and exercise
program and I put them all together, and everything changed. You know
it's interesting, we're hearing so much on the news this past week
about kudzu, which is a powerful anti craving herb that the Chinese
have used for centuries, and now there is scientific data to support
just how effective it is. But I'd been reading studies about this
for 15 years and of course, it is included in this program.
So, I put all these elements together in one integrative therapy and
I had the most remarkable success and I started sharing it with other
people and they tried it and it worked for them, too. So then I presented
it to experts in each of the fields represented in the program-I mean
even the researchers who had been published in the Lancet for the
medication they'd developed for the anti-craving-and all they way
around, I gained a tremendous amount of support for this therapy and
that's when I knew I was on to something.
Michael: Is that when Dr. Garcia got involved with you?
Roberta: Yes, exactly, I had the good fortune of meeting her
through one of her colleagues and then began working on the program
with her
she is a highly regarded medical doctor-an internist-and
she helped me understand that what intuitively made sense to me
to
combine a number of different therapies so you could tackle the problem
from many different directions-was actually a valid medical approach,
just like you treat diabetes or coronary heart disease, and that's
why it's so effective.
Michael: You mentioned that a problem drinker has unique characteristics.
Could you talk a little bit more about that?
Roberta: Well, yes, and Dr. Garcia actually refers to three
levels of drinkers. The first is the social drinker. That's someone
who can "take it or leave it". There's not that preoccupation
with drinking. And they rarely drink to the point of intoxication.
I am so thrilled to be at that stage, by the way. This was my goal
and I feel I have achieved it. I used to go through the day-my work
day, for instance-waiting to go home and drink. I no longer do that.
Now, I'm sure there's some overlap with the next two stages, but I
would define them as saying the next level is the problem drinker.
Again, that's what I was before I started the program. A problem drinker
cannot control their drinker. He or she drinks despite the negative
impacts to their social, physical, emotional or financial health.
They may try to cut down on their drinking but they cannot. The longer
they drink, the greater the tolerance they develop for alcohol. And
then there is the alcoholic, who has a full blown physical and psychological
dependence on alcohol. They may have medical complications because
their addiction has compromised their health. They may lose their
job, engage in dangerous behaviors like drunk driving. They just spiral
downward unless they quit. It doesn't go away, this is a progressive
disease.
Michael: So what does this program offers that, say,
others recovery programs do not?
Roberta: Hope. A true chance of success. A multi-faceted approach
that simply has not been available before. Like I said earlier, it
tackles the disease in a whole new way: physically, behaviorally,
nutritionally, pharmacologically, all wrapped in to one and that is
an extremely powerful proposition. It also offers people an opportunity
to work one on one with a clinician and customize the program. For
instance, I've seen some people work through the hypnotherapy piece
and come to the conclusion that they may want a little additional
support in terms of counseling, and it helps bring them to the point
that they're comfortable with that and ready for that change. Or with
craving, Dr. Garcia has tweaked the program for her patients in many
different ways. Say, have her patients try
maybe a little more
L-Glutamine longer-term or green tea or kudzu, or a different titration
rate on the Topamax. And they see it working, and their families see
it working. It's a very exciting thing and then patients begin to
take control of their recovery when it's working, and they see that
it's not nearly as hard or as painful as they thought it was going
to be. It becomes fun and they see results and there's this clarity
that wasn't there before-they wake up in the morning without the hangover
and the guilt and remorse. It's really very remarkable.
Michael: You mention that certain types of drinkers can drink
moderately once they start on this program. That's sort of a new concept
in recovery, isn't it? Which path did you choose and why?
Roberta: My personal choice was moderation, but I had a backup
plan to quick drinking completely if it didn't work. I mean, I'm not
stupid
I know that alcohol is poison if you drink too much of
it, and it'll eventually kill you. I didn't want die. But on the other
hand, I guess I tend to push things as hard as I can; I wanted to
give this my all, and I also wanted the best possible quality of life
I could achieve. And you know how it when you're on one of those strict
diets and all you think about is food? I didn't want it to be like
that! I didn't want to live like that. As I tell people: I wanted
to enjoy a rich merlot with a tenderloin steak when I went out to
dinner with my husband. We have kids and a very busy life and
frankly, we don't go out that often-but even at home, I love a nice
Chardonnay with fresh seafood-to be able to enjoy that with control
to me is one of the most wonderful things. I wanted to be a social
drinker, like my parents-my adoptive parents, not my biological parents.
My biological parents could not control their cravings for drugs and
alcohol. I was adopted out of that madness, thank God, and I had an
opportunity to grow up with loving parents who were social drinkers.
They did not obsess over alcohol, as I eventually did. And that's
all I wanted, that's all I was asking for. So for me, moderation was
the best case scenario, and when I developed this program, I decided
that this would be my goal, my best case scenario, and because I felt
the approach-this way of tackling it with medication, behavior modification,
nutrition, diet and exercise, was going to be so powerful it just
may work
and it did!
Now, I would agree that many people, including many experts, feel
strongly that abstinence is the ultimate goal-the gold standard, and
that's fine. But even the researchers, the PhDs and MDs who developed
the topiramate clinical trial would agree that treatments to help
alcoholics cut down, say, from ten drinks a day to one or two, is very worthwhile.
They've been quoted as saying 'If you can get people stop drinking
at a hazardous level, you have done them a lot of good.'
I mean think about that! Think what that means in terms of how many
highway fatalities you've prevented. Think about how many marriages
and families you've preserved. Think about how much money you've saved
this country's health care system. So yes, abstinence may be considered
the gold standard-and some may scoff at my goal of moderation
although
it's a choice I am comfortable with and very happy about. But in terms
of harm reduction, we can do an incredible amount of good with an
effective program like My Way Out that offers moderation to those
who simply would not accept any other program or therapy. And of course,
it provides complete abstinences as an option to others, because that
is a much more appropriate goal for some people-we have to remember
that. Sometimes I'm afraid that message is lost in the shuffle, the
message about abstinence.
Michael: Speaking of abstinence, Alcoholics Anonymous and
the 12-step approach has been very helpful to millions of people in
overcoming their addiction. Is your program mutually exclusive of
a fellowship based program like AA?
Roberta: Absolutely not, in fact I hope we begin to see people
using the My Way Out system along with AA and other fellowship based
programs. The beauty of this system is that it is a highly customizable
therapy and the whole point of my developing it was to find something
that worked for me, that I would do
to begin a path to healing
that I was comfortable with and that was effective. Also, I would
never disparage AA because we know-as you say-that it has been very
helpful to people but I think we also need to understand that many
individuals are simply not comfortable in that environment. And we
need to respect that, so this program offers them another avenue to
get well, to begin the process of recovery and healing, and that's
a good thing, to provide another option, another choice to people.
Michael: You talk about using a prescription medicine in your
program. Can you tell us more about that aspect?
Roberta. Sure. Topamax, or topiramate, is a medication that
has been around for about a decade and is used as an anti-seizure
medication, primarily for epilepsy. It's also been approved by the
FDA for treating migraine headaches. It's used off-label to treat
a lot of different things, like obsessive compulsive disorder, binge
eating, and additive disorders, like smoking and cocaine dependence.
It apparently blocks certain receptors in the brain; basically it
interrupts areas of the reward signally center. It's really pretty
fascinating how this stuff works. And it's not mind altering or addictive.
So in 2003 an article was published in The Lancet-I talk about this
in the book, I sorta stumbled upon the article and it got me very
excited. The Lancet is a highly respected medical journal, and the
article described the work of a research team in Texas that was led
Dr. Bankole Johnson, who's an MD and PhD. He had done a lot of work
in this area and in this particular trial he used the medication with
150 heavy drinkers. Some were given Topiramate and others, a placebo.
The people who took topiramate were six times more likely to abstain
from drinking for a month. And after three months, a quarter of them
had abstained, where only 4%, I think, of the placebo group had remained
sober. And it worked even better for binge drinkers.
Michael: When you say heavy drinkers, how do you define that?
Roberta: Clinically, and for this trial, that would be five
drinks per day for men and three drinks a day for women-it's different
because of body weight and how alcohol is metabolized. So with the
trial, and with this medication, one of the other exciting things
is it can be initiated while people are still winding down on their
drinking. That's a first and it can be particularly helpful. However,
even though Topamax appears to be the most effective medication right
now, as I mention in the book, there are a number of other meds in
the pipeline, or combinations of meds, and one of the strengths of
a multi-faceted program like this is that it is only one piece of
the therapy. So if and when newer, or more effective medications are
developed they can be plugged right in. There's a lot of talk about
a medication called Acomplia, which is slated for FDA approval next
year, and also a combination of Topamax and the drug Zofran-Dr. Johnson
has been studying that for some time as well.
Michael: When we talk about alcoholism, are we talking about
something that falls within the realm of "disease"?
Roberta: Well, yes, I think so. Certainly, I'm not an MD,
but clearly, if you look at it: alcoholism is chronic, it's progressive
it has definable symptoms, like the strong need to drink despite negative
consequences. And like many other diseases, it generally has a predictable
course. It seems to be influenced by both genetic and environmental
factors that you can define. And, now we can treat it like a disease-we
can have success in approaching it this way, which is very exciting.
Michael: What role do you think genetics plays in alcoholism?
Roberta: I think it plays a fairly significant role. Again,
I don't have a scientific background and I'm obviously not a geneticist,
but to me, there seems to be a fairly strong link. I like the way
Dr. Garcia describes it: that those of us with parents or family members
who drank are not necessarily "doomed" to inherit the disease;
however, we may be predisposed to express those traits. And obviously
researchers are making progress on finding the direct genetic link;
there have been many exciting developments in this area. It seems
to me the better we understand this, the better our chances of treating
it, just like any other disease. And treating without the stigma and
shame that's been associated with it for so long.
Michael: What role does nutrition play in the My Way Out program?
Roberta: Nutrition is so important, but really easy in terms
of this program. That was one of my goals when I started out because
my life was so busy. This system had to be easy, easy, easy. So we
talk about reducing the intake of sugar and refined carbohydrates,
drinking lots of water, eating a well-balanced diet. One of the happy
side effects of this program, typically, is weight loss. I lost nearly
30 pounds in three months and have kept it off over this past two
years. And of course the supplements are just critical. There's a
six week supplementation program we recommend and the supplements
are specifically tailored to keeping the craving at bay and to help
with withdrawal because even though problem drinkers may not suffer
anything as drastic as the "DT"s, their bodies will be impacted
once the excessive amount of alcohol is reduced, and this program
makes for a remarkably painless transition. We use a nutritional powder-ALL
ONE-from a company called Nutritech that it's very good and provides
a broad spectrum of vitamins, minerals and amino acids, which are
so important. And then we augment that with a small number of other
supplements that include herbals and homeopathics. It includes kudzu
that I mentioned earlier. Some people tweak the formula, but that's
the foundation. It's all highly customizable.
Michael: How do you use the hypnotherapy in the program?
Roberta: Oh my gosh, everybody loves this part of the program,
the hypnotherapy. They tell me privately in emails, they tell me on
the mywayout.org discussion board. Many of them have never undergone
hypnosis before
I certainly had not. But it's powerful, wonderful
stuff, and here's how it works.
Actually, before I go into that, let me mention that when we say
hypnotherapy, what we're really talking about is a combined approach
of hypnosis and relaxation and positive imagery. Each of these in
and of themselves are very effective behavioral modification strategies.
But combined, they are really something. When I first started looking
into this particular aspect of the program, I knew I wanted something
really good, really powerful, effective, and could be used in the home. I had researched and read
about the efficacy of hypnosis in treating addiction so I was looking
for the ultimate program. I had evaluated a number of products but
I just wasn't satisfied with what I was finding. I knew I needed something
that allowed a high level of customization and I wanted to work with
someone who had a great deal of experience in treating addiction and
behavior modification. I found it when I began working with James
Schmelter, a highly respected hypnotherapist who started researching
and studying hypnosis about 35 years ago and now has hundreds of pre-recorded
titles-in fact dozens of them are related to addiction alone. And people
actually work with him in creating their own custom titles on many,
many topics. I've referred a number of clients to him. He's extremely
experienced in this area. So I partnered with him in developing a
series of recordings to integrate this into my program and the
results have been really incredible.
To be honest, when I did the first set of recordings, I wrote it
specifically to my needs-again I never set out to cure anyone but
me-so I used language, for example, about being a better mother, because
that was so important to me, and of course, my goal was one of moderated
drinking. But when I broadened the program out for others, recognizing
that some there would be men, or single people or grandmothers or
individuals who would seek total abstinence-not moderation-I knew
I would need to change the language and the scripts, which are core
to the hypnosis program.
So James and I worked together on a new, equally powerful, but different
set of recordings. And they've been working absolutely great for people.
In fact, we're working on a new one now to help drinkers, that they
can use before they attend certain social events where alcohol may
be present, so they will have even greater self control.
So anyway there's the history, but back to the question about how
it works: my background is in technology management so I liken it
to being a programmer. The subconscious mind is so incredibly powerful,
it's just waiting for instructions-waiting for that code-and this
process guides you to place, I mean you are always fully in control,
that's important for people to understand, but it's as if you become
this wonderfully proficient programmer with the ability to write any
software application you want. You can absolutely change the way you
behave when you connect to your subconscious. You create this positive
change yourself, it's easier than you think to remove old, unhealthy
patterns and replace them with new desirable ones.
It's incredible what you can do with the power of the mind when you
have someone who is truly motivated. And I've found there's nobody
more motivated than someone who's been addicted to a substance and
has tried to get off of it but can't. Who's lost their dignity and
self respect because they cannot control this horrible craving. Who
wakes up every day filled with self loathing. I mean, Michael, they
want this more than anything else. It's amazing what you can do with
that type of motivation. When you take a highly effective, multi-faceted
program liked this, and plug it in to the power of your mind.
And the best part, according to the people who are doing it, is that
it can be done comfortably and discreetly-the patients love this-it
can be done in your own home. You don't have to drive to somebody's
office (or, by the way, pay them a small fortune) you can do it at
your own convenience. Some of it, you can even do when you're driving
or working-the subliminal CDs, anyway. You wouldn't want to do the
hypnotic recordings while you're driving-I want to be clear about
that!
But the series of recordings does many things. It clears your mind,
it prepares you for suggestions, it allows you to customize those
suggestions. There are both subliminal and post-hypnotic suggestions-it's
a unique and highly effective approach. And we believe the fact that
it is so customizable really adds to the effectiveness of the system.
It's quite something.
Michael: The program itself, My Way out, does it include support?
I understand that's very important in the recovery process.
Roberta: Yes, it does, and you're right, support is very important
Some people find support at home with friends or family who have tried
to get them into recovery for many years. Others may, in fact, do
the program in tandem with a 12-step program, although to be honest,
we find that many of our patients are not necessarily comfortable
in that setting. One really wonderful setting where we are seeing
more and more people finding fellowship is the mywayout.org website,
where we have a message board and individuals are connecting there
and learning that they share so many common characteristics. It's
heartwarming to read their stories, to see them finding one another-to
say, boy, your story is my story-we hear that a lot. And of course,
we know that for every person who posts a message-and we can see this
from the web stats-there are dozens who simply read and watch. And
that's okay, because we understand that helps them heal, as well.
It helps them understand that they are not alone in this battle, that
this is something that millions of others fight on a daily basis,
but there is hope for them and there is a way out for them if other
methods have not worked.
Michael: We know that alcoholics have to be concerned about
relapse and recovery for the long term. How do you address that with
this program, or do you address that?
Roberta: Yes, absolutely, and this is a significant concern, of course,
and because the program is integrative, we are really thrilled that
we can offer people a number of different ways to help with long term
control over the craving to drink. Like I was saying earlier about
kudzu, there's so much about this now in the media, it's all over
the news. This is the an excellent example of a safe and effective
supplement that can be pretty much administered forever and has been
scientifically proven to help curb the craving to drink excessively.
The Chinese have known this for centuries. So it's an excellent lifetime
nutritional supplement, particularly for our moderate drinkers, who
need to be able to "flip off that switch" after, say one
drink-this supplement helps them do that, to feel satisfied. It's
also included in our first six weeks of intensive vitamin supplementation
and works with the other elements of the program. And as we say in
Chapter Six "Long Term Maintenance" there are a number of
ways you can adapt various elements of the program to ensure the continued
success.
Others long term maintenance solutions may include alternative methods
outside of some of those included in the My Way Out program. Again
we need to adapt therapies suited to the individual, whether they
are pharmacological or holistic or a combination of both. One of the
things Dr. Garcia and are I have been researching and will be writing
about soon is therapeutic massage and auricular therapy; that's another
very effective therapy for addiction that comes from the East-it's
essentially ear acupuncture. Something your listeners may be interested
in learning more about.
Michael: Well it sounds very exciting and I wish you well
with the program, Roberta. Where can our listeners find you more about
your program?
Roberta: The best way is to visit our website, www.mywayout.org.
We have a great deal of information there about the program, and we're
always adding new research, as well. As I mentioned, we have an active
message board, and that's is a fantastic way to check in, meet others
and get started. We'll be adding a new section where Dr. Garcia will
be providing information, so we're pretty exciting about that. And
of course, there are links there to buy the book, from Book Clearing
House, our distributor, but it's also available on Amazon, Barnes
and Noble and more recently, James Shmelter's site. He's the hypnotherapist
we're working with.
Michael: Okay, great, we've been talking with Roberta Jewell,
author of the book "My Way Out, One Woman's Remarkable Journey
in Overcoming Her Drinking Problem and How Her Innovative Program
Can Help You or Someone You Love. Thanks again Roberta.
Roberta: Thank you Michael, thank you for having me on, it's
been great talking with you.