Um - I hate to break this to you all but it seems that Voddy is bisexual. He spent the last 3 years with me! And before that I was with Rummy, and before that -- Jack Daniels.
In all seriousness, though, this business with alcohol is very much like a relationship. A relationship gone sour. An abusive relationship. We have to know when we've taken enough beatings and get the hell out. When we do that, we take a stand for our lives, our sanity, and our self esteem.
Thanks Kate.