Well my girlfriend has 5 girls...count them 5 and her husband sits on the front porch drinking beer every night. The only exercise he is getting is lifting the can to his chin, so OUT GOES THAT THEORY... Be blessed with what you have, if you want them, have them, if you don't want them..don't have them. I would much rather see someone NOT have children than someone have them and abuse them, which happens everyday. I have two beautiful children..I had them in my 20's...BUT my husband was in his late 30's. So, do what the hell ya wanna do....OH YOU DID! And as for the parking spot thing, I really don't understand that...you are pregnant not handicapped. I was pregnant in the heat of the summer lugging a 10 lb. baby in my stomach...uncomfortable...YES...but I can assure you, a person dying with cancer or someone with no legs needs that spot far more than I did. MY PERSONAL BEEF...I needed to walk! God knows I had weight to lose....