Hi Everyone. I've found this website Saturday morning while in a shamed and desperate hungover state and I'm so glad I found all of you. I've posted on the newbie site over the weekend, but since I'm hoping to moderate I want to find out how you do it. I had been to a party Friday night and really lost control, ending up sloppy and in a blackout for the last part of the evening. I literally didn't see it coming. I was okay and then suddenly the wine hit me like a mack truck! I don't have episodes this extreme all the time but the loss of control is becoming more frequent, I'm getting drunker than I'd like more often than I'd like and I'm scared (not to mention occasionally embarrassed.) Wine is my drink of choice and my husband and I drink wine most evenings starting and ending with dinner. We used to share 1 bottle a night, but we have been up to 1 1/2 or even two some nights. My main problem is the social setting. When I'm anxious or uncomfortable or just having fun I drink continuously throughout the evening, which can really add up. I guess my goal would be to keep the drinking at home to one shared bottle of wine most nights and come up with some kind of plan for social drinking as this is where I'm really losing it. How do you make it through a party? What is a drink counter? Would a plan to limit yourself to one drink per hour be realistic? Alternate water and wine? Limit to 2 - 3? I have several parties coming up and I need a plan! I have downloaded the book, the Kudzu is on it's way and I plan to order the c.d.'s this week. I have been AF the last two days out of contrition!. Thanks to all for being here. I look forward to hearing from you what tools get you through.