Morning all
Looking back at the way I dealt with hubby issues, I now see that what I thought was making me bolder, more assertive, was in fact just plain nastiness.....sounded good (I thought when the words came out of my mouth), but it was the booze talking..just plain hurtful and nasty.
I am now able to have more meaningful discussions, and yes, there are fewer arguments. I haven't "yelled" in a long time, but able to get my point across.......
Long "to do' list today..will chip away at it and see what I can cross off that never ending list!
Hope everyone has a great day!!!
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