[one2many]

Uni,

I can totally understand why you are so upset, it is perfectly natural to feel like that. You feel betrayed and deceit is never nice.In fact it can be quite damaging in a relationship especially if not spoken about.

I was in a situation very similar myself years ago and I know how things swim around in your head..the niggly little doubts...the fear that the doubts may have some truth..the hurt that he went behind your back and planned the whole thing......

I don't think you can move on unless you speak to him about it, your mind will always be wondering and the relationship cannot move along when there is this doubt and hurt in your mind.

I suggest that you sit him down, let him know exactly how you feel and ask him for just one thing...his honesty.....(write it all down if you want before you sit down with him..like where you want to start..how to broach the subject etc and have a look over this before you sit down to talk....get it straight in your head.)

I really hope this works out for you hon, God knows you must really be hurting but hopefully this "talk" will get everything out in the open, once and for all...you you can decide what to do.

Hope it all goes your way....let us know hon and ...good luck!

Love,
o2m