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K - we talked, i didn't tell him about the email but I did confess my fears etc......I did tell him how much he hurt me last summer and how upset I was about the boat and the "other woman".
He completely acknowledged how badly he treated me, completely acknowledged that back then he wasn't ready for anything serious, should have been more respectful of my feelings. He still adamantly refuses that nothing happened between them (which I believe) but does admit that he was curious about her. Which is fair. I knew that, just needed him to admit and acknowlede it.
So I feel better. He is with me, he was honest, he acknowledged my fears and my feelings, talked them through with me, didn't get angry, resentful or upset about me bringing them up, was actually sad that I was feeling that way and was glad that I was willing to talk to him about it.

I think I have a good guy.

thanks guys for all of your help and for listening to me vent. I appreciate all of your advice. Means a lot to me. Love you all,
uni