I am posting again because it was brought to my attention that my post was not helpful advise.
I was told that I "made several derogatory statements about modders". And that I was apparently telling 1morechace "don't listen to modders who might suggest another way to do it". And basically that I implied that there was only one way out.
As I don't not agree with the above, I do want to apologize if my post insulted anyone. I never said, nor do I feel that I implied that all modders here are the same. I do however stand by what I said. Perhaps not everyone has read all the posts I have read from self proclaimed "modders", or perhaps you haven't been in chat with a hostile drunk claiming to Mod. My opinions are based on what I have witnessed here with SOME members. I never implied that it was ALL members. People just have to be careful when they are looking for loopholes and "permission" to drink.
I'm not saying that cutting back can not be done, but very few can do that. Let's be honest here. How many years have so many of us wasted on trying to cut back?
And, as already mentioned in my first post, these are just my opinions.
It was never my intent to hurt anyone's feelings. My intent was to help. I never implied people should do it my way. I did indeed, refer people to the program outlined in RJ's book.
I hope that this clarifies what my intent was.
Again, 1morechace... I wish you the best of luck. We are here for you.
Love, Me
