Hi Ian,
I`m sorry for your distress, and I know your wife`s leaving must feel as if the bottom is falling out of your world.The truth is that the bottom is very often falling out of our world long before we ever admit to that being the case.......your marriage may or may not be over (only time will tell)........marriages don`t fall apart overnight.......this has been happening gradually over a long period of time. Spouses and partners of alcoholics sometimes eventually tire of broken promises,and........who are we to blame them for simply having had enough of the alcoholic in us??
Please don`t despair.......use your wife leaving as the wake-up call it is.......you`re being forced to take a long,hard look at yourself.......look deep within yourself, to the man you used to be and........to the man you can become once more.
Bankruptcy and financial ruin are not the worst things that can befall us in life.......there is no greater pain than losing the one/s we love.
Your wife is simply worn out with all the stress of your alcoholism. Now is your chance to prove to her that you`re still the man she married. There is much hope here.
I wish you the best,
Darling x
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