[KBCE]

Welcome and CONGRATULATIONS! You are very strong indeed and you CAN do this. I believe your hubby is feeling threatened by your new found sobriety, maybe? Years and years ago, I quit drinking (I am trying once again ODAT!!!) and my ex-husband could not handle it. He did not like the confidence I had, nor the clarity. Unfortunatley, after we divorced, he kept on that road and started to do drugs as well which led to his death this past April. I digress...after I stopped, his drinking escalated. He was sooooo angry and would say things like "you think you're so much better than me," yada yada yada. He wanted me to be a drunk mess so he would not look so bad. I hope your husband is stronger than my ex. Hopefully he will see your new found clarity, health and happiness and find that it is something he WANTS too! I don't have any advice, this was just my experience. You seem very very strong and have your act together. I see great things happening for you in your new found sobriety...AND hopefully your husband as well. My best wishes to you in this situation!

K