Welcome Happy,
Good for you on the 9 days so far! I think your husband would you like you to have just one drink with him, for a few reasons probably. You always drank together so it is comfortable for him, it's familiar territory..and the second, because perhaps he is envious that you have made the decision to quit and that one drink you share with him might help take some of guilt away from drinking alone. But, I've just read that little bit of you so I am trying to read what I can from it.
You did what was right for you, and that's good. You did not put any expectation on him or even force his hand, as that never works. He will either quit in his own time, or perhaps not at all. Only time will tell. This is a great place to be for wanting to either quit completely, or moderate. I wish you all the best.
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Gia aka GG
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