Janice, I'm sorry about your situation and empathise, as I'm visiting my ailing father at the moment. I completely agree with the others above that it sounds as though she'll be safest where she is. I would just like to add that there are times when all we can do is look for the least bad solutions. Perhaps in the future you could think about having her visit for short periods of time, at your place, in the family home with someone there with her, with your brother if he's up to it. Alternatives may present themselves after the initial adjustment. Do please look after yourself.
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