[Gia]

Hey Michelle,

Good for you on not getting the wine!

Is this the friend that says he is in love with you? If it is, this does not sound like a healthy friendship to be in (very toxic) if he is going to be pulling that shit on you. It sounds like he is using it against you now, as you told him you loved him as a friend only. But, I may be way off.

Being a mother and a wife does change things; it really has to. You have a beautiful little baby now to nuture and love, your single friends have no clue anymore what it's like to be you. I'm very happy those single days of mine are over, I much rather prefer cuddling with my baby at night watching her favourite show, or watch her play with Popeye. Things change, we all get older and our priorities shift. How we choose to accept that is up to us.