Akgirl
The people that you speak of just are doing this to make themselves feel like they are ok. Deep down they know........ It takes a big person to admit that we are wrong and then go to work to straighten out the problem.
Do what you have to to get yourself in a healthy mindset and maybe find some new people to hang around with.....
I live in a small town also and have to go outside of the town to find straight thinking friends.....
We're here when you need us also. And.....we ARE real people.
Nancy