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Old 07-26-2008, 05:41 PM
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I was surprised to see that this thread was not begun at 2:36PM Eastern Time. Vacations & funtime for everyone. We're having the family (daughter, SIL, & g-sons) for dinner. It'll be fun.

My husb surprised me today by asking me to stop by the liquor store for a bottle of pinot for tonight's dinner. Either he didn't realize how serious my drinking prob was or he forgot. I conveniently "forgot" to get the wine & called my daughter to bring whatever AL they might want. I can always get them to bring it home w/them afterwards. I do much, much better when I don't have anything in the house tempting me...especially wh. wine.

I very briefly toyed w/the idea of getting the bottle of wine & "a little something for myself beforehand." I would get NOTHING out of sharing a bottle of wine w/others. It wouldn't even scratch the surface. Then I asked myself:
-Do you want to be tired & under the influence when the family gets to the house?
-Do you want the strain of acting "normal?"
-Do you want to ruin a wonderful family time?

No contest. No wine.

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Old 07-26-2008, 06:11 PM
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top of the Saturday ABland!

Mary, good call! you chose to push for health and happiness. I agree...sharing a bottle of vino would just be a teaser for me as well.

so...putzing around the house catching up on little projects. taking it easy.

be well everyone
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Old 07-26-2008, 08:03 PM
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Mary,

You touched on something I talked with Mags about.

One glass of wine is torture. Oh shoot, two glasses of wine is torture.

I am not sure how many it takes to satisfy me, usually I am blacked out by then.

You made an excellent call!!

Hi, Det!!!

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Old 07-26-2008, 11:12 PM
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I think it takes about 5 healthy sized glasses of wine for me to feel like I've actually been drinking. Anything less is (yes, Deter) a "teaser." However, by 5 I too am heading for a black-out, a sure hangover the next day, & of course, guilt & remorse. Mary
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Mary, you did a great job thinking that through today...

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Old 07-27-2008, 10:37 AM
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Mary, congrats on a great decision. And count me too in that crowd of "one or two is just a tease." I just can't go down that path either, no matter how tempting the fantasy is sometimes. I'm sure you feel great today about that decision - especially Hangover Free!

Hi Det and Cindi and Chief!!

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ETA: Deter I love your new avatar!!!!
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