Welcome to My Way Out ! We’re glad you found us. Please remember this forum does not replace medical advice. We urge to you seek professional help, especially if you are experiencing symptoms of alcohol withdrawal. Look here for information about what to expect based on how much you're drinking. We hope you will register as a user in our forum and take advantage of the many rich resources here. Join our community today! It's fast, simple, anonymous and absolutely free!


Go Back   My Way Out Forums > Of Special Interest > Long Term Abstainers
Register Blogs FAQ Members List Calendar Mark Forums Read

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1 (permalink)  
Old 12-23-2009, 06:09 AM
mario's Avatar
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: Dublin Ireland
Posts: 4,552
Gallery: 0
My Mood:
Recipes: 1
Default holidays helpyourself

Holiday seasons can be especially stressful for recovering people.One reason is we tend
to think of holidays as magical,mystical,times and set unrealistic expectations.
Holidays may also bring to mind memories-pleasent or unplesent-of indulging.
For many people,facing holidays without drinking,drugging,or overeating may seem a dreary,unfulfilling prospect.
Some advance planing can help,We can log on here and go into chat as well as posting your feelings,or if you prefare go to AA meetings or spend your time with good friends.
We,ll need to be more aware of slogans like,easy does it and one day at a time,and use H>A>L>T
to remind ourselfs not to get too hungry,angry,lonely or tired.We can plan to do some things we enjoy and take time to be good to ourselfs.
Or ask others how they manage holidays safely,Above all we can make a point of finding the beauty,joy and love in the festive season,and ask for help if we need it,Whatever methods we use
sobriety or abstinence should be our first priority.
As holidays approach,help me not to expect to much of myself or others.
__________________
AF 13/01/2009
NF 29/12/2006
– Louisa May Alcott ................. Nothing changes if nothing changes
If you could see yourself...could you see abuse
Reply With Quote
  #2 (permalink)  
Old 12-23-2009, 08:54 AM
Marshy's Avatar
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: London, UK
Posts: 1,104
Gallery: 0
Default

I like this Christmas message Mario!
__________________

AF since December 22nd 2008
Real change is difficult, and slow, and messy - Oliver Burkeman
Reply With Quote
  #3 (permalink)  
Old 12-23-2009, 12:40 PM
LVT25's Avatar
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Mountain time zone
Posts: 2,268
Gallery: 0
My Mood:
Recipes: 9
Default

For sure! H.A.L.T. was always a good reminder for me!
__________________
_______________
NF since June 1, 2008
AF since September 28, 2008
DrunkFree since June 1, 2008

_____________
In memory and honor of MDbiker aka Bear. God has a special place in Heaven for bikers you know.
________________
The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you.
Reply With Quote
  #4 (permalink)  
Old 12-24-2009, 06:00 PM
dora's Avatar
Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: Europe
Posts: 54
Gallery: 0
My Mood:
Default

More wise words Mario!

Dora
Reply With Quote
  #5 (permalink)  
Old 12-24-2009, 07:55 PM
Doggygirl's Avatar
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Where the Booze Don't Shine
Posts: 4,480
Gallery: 0
My Mood:
Recipes: 1
Default

Another wise post Mario! Thanks. HALT is such an important one for me.

DG
__________________
Continuously sober since 5/22/08
Nicotine free since 2/26/07

If I can, you can!
Reply With Quote
  #6 (permalink)  
Old 12-24-2009, 11:12 PM
startingover's Avatar
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: UK
Posts: 22,901
Gallery: 0
My Mood:
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by mario View Post
As holidays approach,help me not to expect to much of myself or others.
This is going to be my mantra today. Thanks Mario
__________________
Living now and not just existing since 9th July 2008
Nicotine Free since 6th February 2009
Reply With Quote
  #7 (permalink)  
Old 12-26-2009, 06:47 PM
lilmea's Avatar
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: small-town USA
Posts: 1,334
Gallery: 0
Default

What a great Christmas message Mario. Thank you for this thoughtful post.
__________________
AF since 7/26/2009
NF since 2/2/2010



"There is nothing noble in being superior to other man. The true nobility is being superior to your previous self."--Hindu proverb.

"Sobriety isn't a landing but rather a journey." anonymous
Reply With Quote
  #8 (permalink)  
Old 12-28-2009, 01:51 PM
clare's Avatar
Member
 
Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: Ireland
Posts: 81
Gallery: 0
My Mood:
Default

h.a.l.t. is very important to understand in our journey to stop or control our drinking
Reply With Quote
Reply


Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On



All times are GMT -2. The time now is 10:58 AM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.6.9
Copyright ©2000 - 2010, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.1.0

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31