I was thinking about acupuncture from voice's post as I wandered around the boards. And I began to masssage my ears. Better than the hair twirling and lip biting I've been doing lately. There are acupuncture or meridian points on your ears, near the top centerthat are for addiction. Mine are tender if you can imagine that. Other places are tender. It is helpful for you to stimulate those places as they relate to body parts in need. You can have an acupuncturist place little magnets held in place by little bandaid sort of dots on the addiction points and you press on them periodically to stimulate suppression of addiction. Not a silver bullet, but helpful.
I know you're waiting for the valium points.

Inside of your arm above elbow. Two or three fingers up. Sideways fingers, not longways. Feel around and find tender point. Press and hold for a minute or so on both arms. Should provide some relaxation.
Hope that helps someone, anyone, everyone.