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Old 03-01-2010, 07:02 PM
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Mama bear, you are always so supportive of us strugglers - I'm sure you will reap the reward. OK, so we're going for the March AF? Running, honesty is always the best, nobody will judge, just join us on March AF.
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mamabear ,I guess we are feeling better! You know I never thought of that before. I thought it would be analogy of my addiction... not so much now Glad your feeling better! runningwind
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jessie I will be there! runningwind
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runningwind - I quit for 8 years, decided one day I could have that "one glass of wine" and five years later ended up worse than before I quit. Hang in there - moderation may work for some but going AF, at least for a while, will take away the chances you have a "I can have one more" moment and turn it into a "I don't drink anymore" moment.
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Tried moderating a dozen times, DID not work for me. 1 always leads to another and so on. Adbstinence rocks!
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Old 03-02-2010, 03:16 PM
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Gearhead I have heard from so many people that very few can moderate, if any! Thats what I'am trying to get through my thick head. runningwind
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Old 03-02-2010, 03:23 PM
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Farm Girl for sharing your story with me. The more I here from people that moderation just brings you back were you started,or worse! Is starting to convice me that AF is the only way to FREEDOM. runningwind
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Old 03-02-2010, 03:51 PM
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Hi runningwind,

Moderation......a word that all people afflicted with alcoholism dream of. I'm one of them. I have tried for years and years to moderate, cut down, only drink on weekends, but it just never works. Am I thick headed ? No. It's the addiction, the voice in your head that thinks he is "The Almighty & All Powerful" and he does win everytime.

I think that when we are truly ready, and when finally enough is enough, and we accept the fact that we CANNOT moderate, that we need a good amount of abstinence, then we can sit back and take a real good look at our life and see where we are going and what road we want to go down for the rest of our lives.

Welcome to MWO Good luck in your journey...I'm right there with you
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Miss October, I know those are true words of wisdom, from someone with real experience . for telling me the truth, I don't believe a true alcholic can moderate either. runningwind
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