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Old 07-24-2008, 11:40 AM
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Sending prayers & hugs your way.
I do know how you feel. My brother did it, too. The emotions you are feeling right now just can't be put into words. I'm so sad for the pain you feel.
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Old 07-24-2008, 11:42 AM
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TIT, I am heart broken for you today. I wish I could be there to hold you and comfort you. Know that I am with you in spirit. I am certain that you must feel overwhelmed by loss right now. I know that the loss of our dear friend Bear hit you especially hard. To loose your step dad so soon must be devistating. All I can say is, please take good care of yourself right now. The issues with your daughter can be handled later. I am furious with her right now! But, right now be with your mom. I know you will support each other and your dear husband is there for you. Let him comfort you.

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Old 07-24-2008, 11:51 AM
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Hi Tough In Texas

I don't have a lot of experience with grief but I am thinking about you today.

I am sorry to hear about your stepdad. I know that when people commit suicide, it's often said that they were selfish and didn't think about the pain they would inflict on families. I don't tend to see it that way. I think the person must have been in a hell of a lot of pain or discomfort to take his or her life.

I hope you can be of some solace to your mother who must be really suffering right now. I agree that your daughter needs to put her petty concerns aside.

Take care of yourself through this physicially, get enough rest etc and accept any support that is offered from friends and family.

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I was so shocked and sad for you when I heard about this last night. I went to bed and said a very long prayer for you and your family. I can't even imagine what you must be going through. Suicide is such a selfish act really. I know you have been through a lot lately, I know you are a strong person, you can get through this too. It's times like this I wish I could wiggle my nose and be with you. Please take care and give your mom a hug.
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Old 07-24-2008, 02:34 PM
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TIT, I'm so sorry for the pain you are going through.
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Old 07-24-2008, 02:46 PM
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TIT I am so sorry.
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TIT.....I'm so sorry for your loss....

Please hang in there and take it one day at a time.....my dad committed suicide 27 years ago, so I know what you are going through.

It's time to be strong and take care of you. Your family is in shock and on autopilot right now. Just do what you have to do the next few days and get through it. Don't allow this to be a reason to drink.....you're better than that.

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Old 07-24-2008, 02:56 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. Sending strengthening prayers to you and your family. Please remember your friends are here for you always.
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i am so sorry..sending prayes and hugs to you and your family..be strong, you can get thur this
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I am so sorry TNT...sending prayers your way.
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