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Old 04-03-2007, 02:48 PM
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Are any of you mean when you drink? I am SO mean. I don't physically hurt anyone, but I say mean things to people I care about. Some of it I mean, but stuff that is better kept to myself. I don't do it to my kids, thank God. But, for example, last night I told my Mom off. She didn't deserve it and I feel terrible today. I have even called people on the phone to cuss them out.

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Old 04-03-2007, 02:52 PM
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I don't just get mean when I drink but if you make me mad then I can say the meanest things. It's like I can turn mean very quickly if I don't like what you say or do. Like you, I don't do that to the kids. My hubby takes the brunt of it.
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Old 04-03-2007, 03:07 PM
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TOC, I have a very sharp tounge; acid like . I have cut many to the quick. Even Calling My ex husbands wife who smokes "A dragon breath bitch" and other deraogatory things. I also get a little physical shoving my husband
Not very proud of that, Don't really regreat the dragon breath bitch part though
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Old 04-03-2007, 03:21 PM
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I'm normally fine until someone says something I don't like..then I can turn and say the most awful hateful mean things. And then not remember any of it and wake up the next day like I never said it, because I can't remember. It's amazing how fast you can go from the happiest person on earth; to the spawn of satan. I'm fine with my daughter (I never seem to lose my patience with her), but normally my poor husband takes the short end of the stick. I know I've hurt him with things I've said so many times, this is another good reason which has prompted me to try to stop and be myself again.

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Old 04-03-2007, 04:50 PM
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I don't think that I get mean, sometimes a little picky with my husband! My biggest problem is getting flirty (prob why bb is my chosen name) I once made my hubby give up his seat to a stranger who I then chatted up all night! Sober i'm not like that at all, Scary this alcohol thing!!!!!
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Old 04-03-2007, 04:56 PM
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yep, I can be mean to my husband...but he deserves it!!! no, just kidding...I actually wasn't very nice last night! :-(
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Old 04-03-2007, 05:35 PM
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It is terrible. I hate it....
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Old 04-03-2007, 05:39 PM
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Aww...not judging here at all. But being on the flip side of this is an aweful place to be. When I drank I was just fun and happy. My ex however is how you describe. And I cant tell you how terrible it has been. Right now I dont care about the bad fights I was in with him. And how he hurt my spirit to the core. But it just kills me that my kids are there with him and I know they are having to deal with it on their own. Truly their is nothing worse then dealing with a hateful drunk person. It hurts everyone involved.
Again.....please dont take offense to my words. I dont mean to hurt you in any way. I am glad for you that you see it. And we can all be mean with or withour alcohol. Myself included. Its just that you can never go back and fix what was said. Dont beat yourself up for whats already done just try to change.

(All except for the husbands stuff. Dilayne is probably right about that part. hee hee)
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Old 04-03-2007, 08:13 PM
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I know Gabby and your words are just the truth....not offense taken at all. I am normally nice, but if I drink...in excess, I can be so mean. I am trying my best to change.....
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Old 04-03-2007, 08:38 PM
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I tend to get argumentative when I drink (especially with my husband). Every little thing that is bothering me just bubbles to the surface. It's never a good thing to talk about relationship issues when drunk. I'm currently in counseling to try to find my "happy place" in my life. Finding this site has been a godsend because I am really trying to change my drinking habits because I do really really want to find that "happy place". Having a plan and people to share things with here is so awesome. If I have been drinking, I remind myself over and over not to argue. And since being here at MYO, I haven't been that "mean" person that I was. One less thing to feel guilty about!

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