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    AF Daily ~ Friday 6/29

    Hidey Hi Fabbies!

    This is unanniversary day for me! Were I married to #1, it would be my anni. I must remember to call him. We laugh.

    This was in notes from the universe today. It is motivation for me to stop second-guessing myself. I often ask "what should I do??"

    Here are the top 10 ways people give away their power:

    1. Asking others what they should do.
    2. Thinking God decides who gets what.
    3. Worrying about how their dream will come true.
    4. Thinking they have dues to pay.
    5. Attaching to unimportant details and outcomes.
    6. Believing in soul mates.
    7. Thinking karma or spiritual contracts are absolute.
    8. Fear of anything, especially falling in love.
    9. Waiting for their ducks to line up before acting.
    10. Choosing to be unhappy.
    11. Drinking.

    I have this really deep voice with a nasal froggish component to it from this whateveritis thing I have. It almost makes me laugh to hear myself talk. I think the dog is confused. :H

    OK, I added #11. :H

    Netti pot. That is all.

    One thing is for sure.
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    Thoughts become things..... choose the good ones. ~TUT

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    AF Daily ~ Friday 6/29

    greeneyes;1342881 wrote:

    Netti pot. That is all.
    :disgusting:

    Hi Greenie and all to come. It's nice that you're on good terms with your ex. I never have anything to do with mine :H Re the second-guessing: I'm discussing with my therapist redressing the balance between thinking and feeling. Different for everyone, of course, but I'm finding it useful.

    Was on the bus on the way into work this morning with a man who was telling his friend that he'd just got out of detox and was going to buy some beer. Seemed like a world away, yet connected to me at the same time.

    Have a good day all - another rainy summer's day here!
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    AF since December 22nd 2008
    Real change is difficult, and slow, and messy - Oliver Burkeman

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      #3
      AF Daily ~ Friday 6/29

      Good morning Greenie, Marshy & all Abbers

      My unanniversary is tomorrow Greenie, 39 years & counting.....
      Still don't know where that whole mess stands
      I've had a definite increase in allergy symptoms this week & noticed 2 of the farmers on my road are cutting their hayfields......hmm, bet that has something to do with it. Maybe you can use your special froggy voice to entertain kids or something :H My DIL swears by her netti pot but I won't go there, yuck. Hope you clear up soon!

      Marshy, hearing people talk about getting trashed is such a turn off. Looking at the garbage some of my nieces & nephews write on Facebook about drinking is just sad. Makes me very happy & oh so grateful to be removed from all that

      Had a bad night with a puking dog & a huge thunder storm - my day is all off schedule
      I'll figure it out at some point

      Wishing everyone a terrific AF Friday!
      Lav
      AF since 03/26/09
      NF since 05/19/09
      Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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        #4
        AF Daily ~ Friday 6/29

        109 degrees here today. That was one hot mother of a day. :toohot:

        Just us old-timers here today, eh?

        Marshy that really is something to ponder... the diff between thinking and feeling.
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        Thoughts become things..... choose the good ones. ~TUT

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          #5
          AF Daily ~ Friday 6/29

          Hmmm Thinking vs Feeling....
          I think I wrote a paper on that topic in philosophy class :H
          I know that I am reasonable & able to think through a topic but only after I react emotionally first ~ if that makes any sense Good luck with that Marshy!

          Should I have my feelings hurt because you called us old=timers Greenie? :H :H

          I see thunder storm warnngs on TV again for tonight. That storm last night was a doozy!
          109 degrees is deadly Greenie - ugh!!
          AF since 03/26/09
          NF since 05/19/09
          Success comes one day at a time :thumbs:

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            #6
            AF Daily ~ Friday 6/29

            oy! exhausted garlicky hugs from the high desert. xxxxxxxx

            Greenie, I love your list and concur.

            Happy anniversaries to you and Lav!

            Heya Marshy!

            well now.... we are a pretty sparse bunch today I see. hope all are well.

            I'm off for a very badly needed mountain adventure therapy tomorrow.

            be well everyone
            nosce te ipsum
            (Know Thyself)

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              #7
              AF Daily ~ Friday 6/29

              feeling + thinking = finking.

              it should be a word!
              nosce te ipsum
              (Know Thyself)

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