Military spouse?

[SqueakyClean]

..... my partner/hubby/lover/boyfriend has just gone back to afghanistan for the 3rd time this year. he regularly spends 6 months a year in war zones, as a reservist, he serves much more time than the regulars. He does at usually 4 x 8 wks away every year. I miss him totally, but at least we have Skype, and I drink so much less when he's deployed......

Anybody else with men overseas?
Help me out here, I'm trying to be rational!