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    Mean?

    Was musicz posting again:lol . Seriously, I don't think anybody meant to be mean. Just posting their opinions.If you don't agree, that's fine. That is why it is called an opinion. By the way this is a definition I found of enabling. Which one of you moved me out of the living room last time I passed out:lol ?



    ENABLING

    Enabling includes behaviors by family members that allow people with substance use problems to avoid the negative consequences of their actions. It can include many things, such as:


    collecting money from family and friends to pay the person's bills.
    repeatedly covering up for someone at work.
    moving someone when they pass out in the living room.
    staying silent in the face of repeated inappropriate or destructive behavior.

    Enabling can be done by parents, siblings, co-workers, supervisors, neighbors, friends, teachers, doctors, or therapists. Although enabling begins as a way to protect the person from harm, the enabler eventually becomes part of the problem.

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    Re: Mean?

    Becca, I know we've never "talked" but I check in regularly on the mods thread and always get a laugh out of your posts (with you, not at you OK!?). You're part of my program girl! Daily laughing helps get the endorphins up...so please, you can't leave! I think Marcie is absolutely right on in everything she said . I'm sensitive too Becca, so I think I would feel the same way though. See how you feel tomorrow please...you know how much the peeps here love you...

    Deirdre

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    Becca.
    I do not know you and am new to the program but your postings were one of the reasons I was drawn into this program. It has really helped me . Please don't leave.Kick the banana peel away. We need you.

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    Come Home again.

    Becca,

    Hey, I thought you were going to stay down in our own "comfy world"....lol. Oh well, never mind all of this and come back.

    Read what you like and forget the rest! You do a great job here with helping others....me included. It would be a shame to loose you!

    Take care,
    ~Tammie

    ps...I sent you my e-mail address...I still need help with my laundry from time to time and aren't you due to transfer shortly? Remember I have been there and done that, times 3. We could all use more friends! Hang in there, luv ya!

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    Becca my best friend and buddy here!

    "You will not leave." (ps...I'm hypnotizing you, so go back to sleep... lie down.. that's right. Now just listen!)

    You are the LIFE of our days when we feel like giving up. You are the ONLY one that I have heard their voice on a regular basis. And knowing YOU...

    You have kicked you cute ass right out of this before you even read it, and that is what I love about you. But hey! If you havent, call me. Thinking of you! Oh... WAKE UP BECCA...

    Allie

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    Re: Come Home again.

    Becca??? Hello......
    You awake yet??

    I'll try your cell in the morning..... so I trust you are listening to CDs....

    Allie

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    Becca, Hey girl, My puter's been all goofy all afternoon! In more ways than one! I really , Really hope you stay around here. We need you! They'll "eat me alive" if I'm the only "perve" on board! No, I mean it, you're so much a part of this ...please stick around. Tomorro's a new day. Talk to you then.... Hugs, Judie

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    Re: Come Home again.

    Becca,

    I dont care a hoot about playing the perfectionist role, or polishing my tiara! In fact, I think Im out of silver polish... but we could go fishing, or lay out on the beach? Get some seafood? You go girl! I like REAL people who share their ups as well as their downs. You are Real, and so you deserve some real seafood! I can send you some live crab or lobster, but you have to cook it within 12 hours....

    Or better yet, we could just get together and go fishin!

    Allie

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    Can I have your e-mail address dear- do you really need to leave so soon? I'm only abs 9 days!!

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    Who was mean, I can't find the thread that judged you, I don't think whomever it was meant anything. Please don't leave.

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