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    What the hell have i done!

    Ok so as most of you know, i drank today (alot) while at my mothers and fathers, while looking after the babies. My mum and dad went insane (all in good reason) They took my little one off me, although i wasn't drinking with her in my personal care. I don't know why i did what i did. I've been slipping so much the past week and a bit. I've stopped taking my supplements, why, i don't know. I've just stopped caring. I've become weak. I've told everyone i was weak but i go to my mums house and there are bears, half drunk wine bottles everywhere. I just snapped today.
    I was cruel to my father, aggressive with my mother and just sorry to my husband. My mum wants to see me tomorrow. I know i have to face her one day, better now then later. My dad is the one i'm really scared of tho. I just let everything spill. How dare he judge me when he drinks and overdoses on tablets to get high. He never does it in front of the kids tho which is so much better then what i did. I guess he's just better then me.

    In a horrible way, i'm glad i drank and this happened. I'm now scared and affraid of drink, losing everything in my life. I feel this needed to happen to get me back on track. Maybe deep inside i did it for that reason, or maybe i'm just THAT stupid. I don't know. I feel strong inside, very calm, very relaxed, a little scared of facing my parents but i feel not lost anymore. I have a reason for staying sober. I've been so lost the past week, everyday i'd be saying... ok day 1 and screwing it up. I know i can't screw it up now. I have no choice but to stay sober. Grit my teeth and deal with the cravings.

    I'm a real family girl who's been backed into a corner by drink. I kinda feel like i'm turning into the 'drunk/troubled britney spears'. I just want tomorrow over with. I can face everyone and watch them hate me, show me how pathetic and weak i am. My mum told me this site and everyone on it was bullsh*t. I flew at her. If it wasn't for this site and everyone on it, i'd be dead or have lost my family for sure. I'm the one to blame. I'm holding my hands up saying, i decided to drink, i picked up the bottle, i poured it out, i drunk it, i knew what i was doing, i just didn't care. I'm the selfish, stupid, pathetic loser who deserves to lose her family, her home, her job and her life. I'll not have anyone talk bad about this program. It's fine if they think it's rubish, after all everyone has veiws and ideas BUT NO ONE ever has the right to talk bad about anyone on this site ever. I'll not stand for that.

    I am soo scared about tomorrow. I'm getting antabuse for sure. Damn it, what have i done. I love being sober! why did i do it! i'm just a worthless bit of crap who somehow manage to marry the most amazing man and have the most supportive parents which i just treat like crap and may have lost.

    Sorry for the long post.

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    Lil.michelle ----- they say sometimes you have to hit rock bottom before you can find your way free. Sounds like you know you've found your bottom and don't want to stay there. Get to your doctor, get the antabuse, keep posting here to know you're not the only one fighting this horrible illness. You've got a baby to live for and be there for .... you'll need to be strong and stay AF to guide her through her childhood and teen years.
    Be straight with your family, and I'm sure they'll do whatever they can to support you...... perhaps no more visible AL when you come to visit. Stay strong --- it will be so worth it.

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    Lil. Michelle, You deserve to be happy and sober. You're right maybe this will get you mad enough to make that change in your life. You are also right the people on this website are a blessing. Get the help you deserve to take care of yourself and your family. Possibly a good therapist or even AA. I added AA to my arsenal about a month ago and I don't know why I did'nt go sooner. I'm sure there are people here more qualified than I am at your situation. Just wanted to let you know I feel your pain and will say a prayer for you and your babies.

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    Michelle, it sounds like this is the turning point for you. Something has changed. All this has probably made you stronger, it is a learning experience. You are not worthless you are just trying to find your way, I think you will do it now.....

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    I am sorry you are having a hard time- but you are not crap. You are a lovely girl and a good mother who like the rest of us has become addicted to a poisonous substance through no fault of your own.
    It is not your fault you became addicted, but it is our responsibility to do something about it.

    Your parents must realise leaving drink lying all over the place is not a very good idea when you visit- I know it is their house and they can do what they want they could maybe put it away out of sight.

    Dust yourself down, have your say with your parents, maybe you need to clear the air, get all your tools back out and try again!
    I don't think anyone on this site has managed to stop the first time they decided their drinking was out of hand- failing seems to be part of finally succeeding.

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    Michelle,

    I can completely relate i'm new here but I have lost my family to drinking and i will do everything in my power to help you so that doesn't happen to anyone you can beat it you can talk to us here.

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    hi michelle,as someone said this addiction is no fault of yours,you inherited it,but as you also said you have to help you,this place is a good start,lots of support,rock bottom to me is usually death,i found this past year one of the finest things a person with this desease,can do is listen,how others, words ,can have such an impact on us,i found to after beingsober for 10 months the same happened to me,tht i could handle being around people drinking,it was fine in the beginning,but near the end they,would drink to muh,or take o many pain pilss,or make suggestive comments on how i use to be,as i was tot this year ,some have to remove themselves from the situation,as my councillor and brother said,eventually theylll ask where michelle is and maybe also stop drinking when your around,or you just dont go to the functions,,i no where i went this past winter has really helped my alchoholism,treatment center,30 days and all never be the same,i hope this helps gyco

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    Just pick yourself up and start again ! ( not insenuating this about you....LOL) IAD.

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    I wish I could reach out and give you a real long hug. But, know I want to.

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    Michelle, I am right there with you. I just know things have to get better. If I don't get myself straight I am going to lose my family. I receive so much encourgement from others on this sight. If I ever get this problem under control I want to be one of those encouragers!

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