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      How did I get here? So lost...and alone.

      Moss! They are 2 of the 3 reasons you are here and you know what I'm talking about!!!

      :l NS

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      How did I get here? So lost...and alone.

      Moss I have 4 great reasons to not drink. My 26 and 21 year old daughters and my 24 and 20 year old sons and the most important reason also is for ME.

      My daughter gets married in November and no way do i want to embarrass her on her biggest and most important day of her life.

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      How did I get here? So lost...and alone.

      NS - I know exactly what you are saying!
      Avail - you will make your daughter proud. I am sure of it.
      Oakley - not trying to hijack your thread. You just started a good conversation

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      How did I get here? So lost...and alone.

      Thank you, NoSugar...I will check them out.
      Rose...my sons are 15 and 12 (twins). They too are my world and a major reason I am here. I'm also here for me. I'm tired of not living my potential. I somehow got lost during my marriage and haven't found myself since my divorce. I'm stuck in a pretty ugly place and for my sake and of course my kids' sakes, I need to get my shit together! thanks for being here...

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      How did I get here? So lost...and alone.

      Are you paranoid today MOSS lol, you like me are new and in some way i think us newbies having a few days under our belts AF do have some good points to say also. Keep posting Moss and glad you are doing well. I have told my daughter i am AF and she is really happy and proud, it gets harder to hide your intake the older they become.

      Oakley you confused me when u said 15 and 12 twins. Im thinking thats not twins lol. You have come here so you have potential to change. Like you I am single and god forbid I would not want a man that would see the drunken, mess I had become and i was looking for all the wrong men. Now i am focusing on me getting healthy and who knows what life has to bring.

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      How did I get here? So lost...and alone.

      I have 3 sons...one is 15 and two are 12

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      How did I get here? So lost...and alone.

      Oakely - you have the right attitude. If you read the exchange between NoSugar and me, you will see that she was gently reminding me that I need to put myself into the equation too. Yes, my sons were a major reason I decided to quit, but I did it for myself too.

      I'm recently divorced after 17 years (it was final last week) so I do understand how it feels to lose yourself in a marriage and motherhood. It's not wrong to feel that way, it's human. I'm trying to rebuild my life now. It's scary and exhilarating at the same time. I'm sure you understand. Wow - twins must have been a handful when they were younger. Hat's off to you.

      I'm sorry you are in an ugly place right now, but maybe you can use that as a springboard to a new life. Figure out what it is that you need to change and start from there. Knowing what you don't want is half the battle. From now on, try to envision the future you desire - stay focused - and try to kick AL to the curb. Stay close to us. We're here for you.

      Avail - you make me laugh. Paranoid. Who me??? LOL. Have a great day!!

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      How did I get here? So lost...and alone.

      And yes, I agree about needing to be single right now. I have some issues to deal with and don't need to complicate my (or anyone else's) life at this point.

      My mind is reeling right now...so much going on in it. So much I want to say and ask but don't know where to begin. Reading the threads here is helping me find some clarity...so many of the thoughts and experiences posted resonate. I'll keep reading and hope to make some sense of what is going on in my head.

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      How did I get here? So lost...and alone.

      We do have to start focusing on us and realising we are alcoholics, there is no ONE drink for us. I wish there was sometimes but i dont miss AL most of the time. You can do this Oak for sure, if we can give it a shot so can you (no pun there).

      Moss i left my husband after 17 years also, 6 years ago, and best thing i did. We are still friends and he will be at our daughters wedding. The worst thing was falling into bed and getting attached straight away but got rid of him too. Now i am finding myself and realising i am a nice person and i deserve to be happy and especially without AL. So much to live for now.

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      How did I get here? So lost...and alone.

      Thank you MR...and all of you who have responded to my post. I appreciate your kind welcome and words of encouragement.

      I know that wine is not my issue...it's how I deal with my issues. Redefining my life (and my family) has not been easy. I know my issues run deep...I'm thinking this community and some therapy are just what I need!

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