August Mod Squad

[vlivengood]

LG- starting a day off with arguing sux.... I'm sorry glad your resolved to turn it around.

I think you should go to your sisters swimsuit or not- wear some capris and dangle feet in the pool - maybe wear your suit under your clothes and when people say hey why don't you have a swim say you wore your suit and all but just aren't feeling like a swim. You can use this oppertunity to show your sis yet again that you are no longer the family drunk.

Did anyone get mom some new blouses and bras yet, maybe you could take care of that before you go......

Well keep me posted!

[LibraryGirl]

Thanks V. I wasn't ever the family drunk, lol. My sister and her partner drink as much or more than I do/did. My drinking occured mostly at home for the past 10ish years. I never drank around the rest of the family, except maybe a glass of wine. My sisters and brothers are so spread out in age...the sister I am going to see today is only 22 months older than I am, but after that my brother is 8 years older...with my oldest sister being 22 years older than I am. There are seven of us. My parents were having babies for 22 years, lol.

Bf's left to go to the flea market. Hoping he'll find that exclusive item. Not sure if he's going with me to my sister's or not. He said not when we were arguing, but that's ok, either way.

[drinkingal]

Stewarts, I found your post a bit hard to follow but probably just too many people involved, but as far as your gf being hit in the past, there really is nothing you can do about it, hopefully she realized it was a bad situation that she needs to be out of. You can't come to the rescue and make things right, because it happened and as long as she doesn't stay and allow it to continue then that situation is dealt with and you have to let it go. I know it's hard but it was between them and that is how it needs to be dealt with.

[vlivengood]

Whoooooops! LG I feel like such a tard I tangled your sister drama up in my with another members sister drama that I read about earlier this week asking how to deal with her sister always referring to her as the family drunk...... Sorry about that...... And I'm
Not even drinking......

I have 5 sisters (6 of us total) my parents were making babies for twenty plus years as well!

Niece hated bike ride complained she was hot and tired. Gotta get her home now and head to DMV

Sorry again LG

[LibraryGirl]

LOL, it's easy to get things mixed up on here. Hard to keep everyone straight. No problem, V. I do worry about drinking too much and maybe getting into an argument with my sister, because we have always squabbled, since todlers. Hopefully, we can just get along good today...Not like we argue every time we are together, but she has a tendency to pull the big sis act, and I instantly feel like a kid again and get resentful. Not sure if you can relate to that or not.

Hi dg. Good advice there for Stewarts. Hope you're having a great Saturday.

[vlivengood]

2 of my sisters are half sisters and I did not grow up with them and have little to no relationship with him so it's really us 4 girls... the oldest is kinda a waste 40 severely overweight, no job, lives with and off parents and a compulsive liar.... Has a good heart though and I love her just not much in common, then my sis who is like 37 is married 3 kids stay at home mom and we are very close (that's who's daughter stayed over) then me 35, then my youngest sis, baby if the family, complete wreck of an alcoholic, over 3-4 DUI's )boy could I tell some stories about her ) that being said she is my lil sis sole mate I love her more than anyone in my life I worry about her constantly and miss her immensely (she lives in CA, much safer for her there away from sin city) I chat with her via text and phone all day long so that's it in a nut shell.....

FLYING THRU DMV WAHOO

[Cashregister]

Hey VLG so pleased to hear the visit went well - at least you know you can skip the pressure if the bike bike ride next time. Glad your day is a good one too.
Only child myself so never really get the sibling thing and can never comment
LG hope the argument is resolved - Anthony ( just can't call him nothing else cause that's who he is!!) and I married 15 and a half years and we argue sometimes but can never maintain the rage - at one point or another one of us will see the stupid side and make the other one laugh - he will literally follow me around the house while I'm stomping and slamming doors and I can't look at him cause I know I will laugh - it will all work out in the end I guess is how I'm trying to say this in a waffling way and you probably know this already anyhow - I'm a dufus
Have a great Sunday when you get to it.

[LibraryGirl]

Well, I went. We had a great time. Played vollyball in the pool, and had a few beers. Just got home and going to relax and get to bed soon.

Hope everyone had/has a great day.

:hLG

[drinkingal]

Hi everyone, gosh you guys are prolific :H it took me ages to catch up on this thread. I had a pretty successful week, got 3 af days in and did well controlling my drinking the other days, until yesterday (oops). A gf came around and we started drinking early, big mistake because I totally overdid it by the end of the night.

Where is trixie, farfalla, and the other modders? just doing a callout so I hope they check in. Haven't seen trixie here in ages.

[Cashregister]

Sounds like a great night LG!
Nice to meet you dg