The end of a long term relationship not quite funny BUT predictable

[kaponium]

The end of a long term relationship not quite funny BUT predictable

Captn - my heart goes out to you at this bloody awful time. Please hang in there...I don't know what else to say, but soldier on my friend - we are here for you x

[Captnjack]

The end of a long term relationship not quite funny BUT predictable

Thanks kapo Im ok appreciate your concern thanks
Love cap

[startingover]

The end of a long term relationship not quite funny BUT predictable

Cap, my thoughts are with you...take care hun, you'll get through this and so will Lucy x

[Captnjack]

The end of a long term relationship not quite funny BUT predictable

Thanks Starts you have been a very big piece of my getting sober you always seemed to care as others too but youre a special one as is limers:l

[doubter]

The end of a long term relationship not quite funny BUT predictable

Hi Captn

Don't have much to say except that I commiserate with you. Please be strong, take care of your daughter's emotions and....of course, stay away from booze. No point complicating matters.

[hulagirl]

The end of a long term relationship not quite funny BUT predictable

rocking, waves slapping
refuge for my broken soul
dark water, night sky

little sail boat waits
solitude on the water
quiet, peaceful, thoughts

[Bashley]

The end of a long term relationship not quite funny BUT predictable

Hello matey,

It?s been quite a while, for me at least. Sorry to hear of your separation.
I?m on my third marriage (17 years as well), so I do know that after the initial break-up, things can only get better. We often say to ourselves that it?s better to hang on for the kids?sakes. Not true. Kids adapt quickly and as long as you see them often and show them that you love them, they can continue to grow up as responsable adults - as long as you remain sober. If you fall off the wagon, NEVER communicate with kids in this state. Get sober and then get close again.
I wish you luck and personal fortitude.

Take good care

Bashley

[gettinitright]

The end of a long term relationship not quite funny BUT predictable

Well dang Bashley your four years late matey! Where ya been? Good to see you again.

[Kradle123]

The end of a long term relationship not quite funny BUT predictable

Beasley, welcome Home! :l

I 've missed your posts. You sound happy and healthy! :h

[dixon]

The end of a long term relationship not quite funny BUT predictable

Same here captn!

Undecided at all though it's been two and half years .We used to talk sometimes , may be we love each other but can't patch up .No divorce no saperation yet and thinking of my wife and kids very much.
Do we have any other nice forum where we can discuss our family break up and children matter ?.I know there are so many but wanted the best one ?

Dixon

[dixon]

The end of a long term relationship not quite funny BUT predictable

Bashley;1572768 wrote:

Hello matey,

It?s been quite a while, for me at least. Sorry to hear of your separation.
I?m on my third marriage (17 years as well), so I do know that after the initial break-up, things can only get better. We often say to ourselves that it?s better to hang on for the kids?sakes. Not true. Kids adapt quickly and as long as you see them often and show them that you love them, they can continue to grow up as responsable adults - as long as you remain sober. If you fall off the wagon, NEVER communicate with kids in this state. Get sober and then get close again.
I wish you luck and personal fortitude.

Take good care

Bashley

Thanks Bashley,

I think this is the best option .
Dixon

[Bashley]

The end of a long term relationship not quite funny BUT predictable

gettinitright;1572771 wrote: Well dang Bashley your four years late matey! Where ya been? Good to see you again.

Hi Gettinitright,

Bloody hell !! I clean forgot to check the dates on the Capt?s posts.

Oh well maybe it?ll do someone else some good...

Here?s a picture to take us back to our adventures on the high seas.

Be good but if you can?t: be careful