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    Hi Guys, It's so nice to see that I was missed. It was a LOOOOOOOOONg weekend!!!!Where to begin, first for anyone who has never read one of my rambing incoherent posts a list of characters.
    Husband-Greg
    Daughter-Noelle
    SIL- Malcolm
    Darling Grandson -Caden
    So Friday night, I thinking Greg is coming home regular time which is between 7-8pm.He had a big closing in DC @ 2:30 . He never takes his cell phone in on big meetings. I understand that. So to celebrate the closing he takes them for drinks (I have no issue with that) But the restaurant they went to was in the building, so he didn't go out to the car and get his phone to let me know. So after 8pm I was wondering where is, I call him I get voice mail. In the mean while I get a phone call from a friend wanting free decorating advice. The old "what would you do in this room" thing. Hello? were friends, but it is my profession. but I gave the advice. So then Husband calls tipsy. So I tell him do not drive untill you eat more and drink water and coffee. So finally get him via telephone to driving condition. Does not get home until 11. Don't you think for a moment Mama here won't get her % of that deal he closed. sat. Morning Tech time!!! putting in another HDTV not so hard ( very little of the f-you and your mother too moments; thoses come from me by the way not him. he kinnda growls.) I have a older computer in the kitchen area because I'm always in this area so I wanted the new computer in the library.After setting it all up in there the little card to grab the signal from the router would not work.So any how old faithful was removed form the kitchen desk area and the new baby installed. I also now have video chat. So you guys can see my hanging pot rack instead of my nice library. Was irritated by that. So then I try to chat Sat afternoon, I was so excited because it was like a group of 6 of really great people in the room, I kept geting frozen out. I don't know what it is, I can take it if someone flips me off, But that little gloved hand giving me the 1 minute finger drives me nuts. Turns out husband was messing with something to do with the connection. Lets move to Sat. evening. 7:25 noelle calls and ask if I can meet her at the hospital she is spotting a little. I said where is Malcolm? He said that he didn't want to leave his mother alone with the kids. Hello?? they put them to bed at 8 couldn't have been that much to do. Wasn't she there to help? SO I rush up to the hospital, (it's the one where she works) So we sit there; In the ER you see alot of different people. We had to wait because trauma patients go 1st. there were 2 medivac's and several ambulances come in so we just kept waiting. This one lady who was a little drunk and decided she need me to explain the Alec Balwin/ Kim Bassinger situation to her. The stench of alcohol was so strong in that waiting room was making me nauseous Hey and I'm the drinker!. What? does everyone who get drunk and then decide to hurt themselves? Yeah I bettcha I can stick my head in the wood chipper and nothing will happen! So while sitting there her cell starts to ring she picks it up but gives me the SHHH sign. WHAT???? it was Malcolm he didn't know I was with her. I was pissed. But kept it to myself, after 5 hours in the waiting room, we get to go back and get in a room a doctor comes in rather quickly sets a plan of action. And we WAIT!! More Trauma I heard a policeman say "we have to call county coroner we need photos" They come in the spotting had stopped. Came in and gave her a rogaim(sp) shot and said you should be ready to go. I said what about her ultrasound ? oh, the nurse said I'll go check, Yeah , the doctor does want you to have a ultrasound but he forgot to write it down. another hour passes lots of time for Noelle and I to talk,she tells me Malcolm dosen't want you to know about the babies. Another WTF? moment. He has told his entire family. She said I'm going to get my Dad to talk to him about you and make him see reason. Yeah, that's good, a man I married when I was 16 almost 30 years ago and has not had a kind word for me since'83 is really going to bat for me?? More tongue biting ensued. Finalyy ultrasound guy shows up. Take all the images the twins are still there. This 3:30 we wait the doctor steps in and says were getting your discharge papers togethe;r but be patient we have a lot of traumas tonight. Meanwhile, Malcolm calls again just all hearts and flowers. His lousy butt is in bed and I'm sitting there cross eyed trying not to sleep. So Finally they come in tell her it is natural 1st term bleeding but to stay off her feet as much as possible. And both twins are there and seem fine. She had a past misscarriage and she is at a higher risk than most women with this pregnancy. Another reason for Malcolm to be there. It's 4:30 we pass back through the waiting room area there is a woman covered in blood and some guy that looks like Charles Manson pacing and talking to him self in the entry. The are 3 police cars on the parking lot but I see no policemen. I asked Noelle do the security guards have guns. No pepper spray? Nothing like a 70 year old man with pepper sparay at that ungodly hour to make you feel safe.I drive her to her car it feels awkward no hug goodbye just a thanks Mom. I said anytime Your always my baby girl. 45 minute drive back home, weaving and bopping down the highway because I can't see a thing after dark. there was no one on the highway thank heavens!! I reach my door at 5:15 greeted by 16 loving paws, except Mamie Eisenhower. Who was upstairs wainting next to a sleeping Greg on my side the bed,the little diva! So I ran errand yesterday with the husband. Watched the HORIBLE movie THE HOLIDAY last night. based on the recommendation of my hair stylist. She should stick to hair not movie critiqing. That is it in a nut shell so much more happened, but seriously, do you really want to know? Thanks for missing be. i missed you guys to. Today I'll be out for a while as I am going to spend time with Caden this afternoon.I only have to clean 2 cat litter boxes for the privallage. I don't care I haven't seen him in a month. I can't wait!!!
    Love and Smiles
    Mar
    PS I promise I will anwser all email tonight!!

    #2
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    You REALLY were missed Simey !


    I will never again complain about my boring life !! Your daughter is so blessed to have you as a Mom... Hopefully she will see that. I would love to give her my Mom and you can be mine even for a week and she'll see !!! I wish for you a glitch free week. You SO deserve it. OMG you make me laugh ! :H Love your thread. Love and Hugs :l
    ~Niblet~

    ~ I hear a whinny on the wind~

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      #3
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      Many hugs to you! I could never imagine excluding my mother from my children's lives. Unfortunately she passed away before I had any. I hope she, as in your daughter, wakes up before its too late.

      (edited for clarity)
      Suddenly I see
      This is what I want to be
      suddenly I see
      Why the hell it means so much to me.

      -KT Tunstall

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        #4
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        Mary, You could write a soap opera about your life .....

        Love ya, BB
        sigpicXXX

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          #5
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          WELCOME BACK! I MISSED YA!

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            #6
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            Welcome Mary, missed you love Lisa xx
            Elvis is'nt dead, he's in my broom cupboard ....

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              #7
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              hey Mum..yay your finally online missed you loads

              Your Little Girl cxx
              http://localhost/gimport/cache/avatars/addicted to living again

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                #8
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                Wow!
                You have quite the story Mary!
                Makes Young and the Restless look boring.
                Welcome back!
                Enjoy your grandson!

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                  #9
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                  Well, that what sort of like a spa experience

                  sort of ... right my diva friend? As for movies, I do recommend Secrets & Scandals & The Queen. I am laid up in bed with two bum feet so I have been watching lots of flicks.

                  A question for my lady friends. My boyfriend is frustrated because our sexlife has been impacted because I am on medication, in pain and not in the mood --- I might as be a corpse!!!! But he says when I get better we can get back to a normal schedule -- he says ideally I'd love to make love to you 7 days a week... help me!!!!!!! I work more than full time and these pain pills anti depressants have killed my libido -- what is a diva to do?????
                  La Liz -- good news I have not had chardonanny since early April ...

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                    #10
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                    Anti depressants can often cause a decrease in libido. Unfortunately no one knows how each different medication will effect each person. When I took Effexor I experienced quite a drop in libido. I am now on Lexapro and have no drop in libido. Pain in general tends to kill libido so maybe you'll feel a bit more frisky when you don't hurt anymore.


                    -Lorelei
                    Suddenly I see
                    This is what I want to be
                    suddenly I see
                    Why the hell it means so much to me.

                    -KT Tunstall

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                      #11
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                      Hi Still crawling....On a personal level there can be some tricky times if you are used to using alcohol pre the bedroom scene and it takes some changes in thought processes to realise that its actually better....smelling of nice perfume..no boozy breath...no falling asleep at a vital time.
                      The plus is having a full memory on what was/is a wonderful intimate time...no guilt or shame etc

                      i think some of us ladies know what i mean?????????????enough said

                      Good Luck

                      Cassy

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                        #12
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                        Mar............I really think you should write a book. I'd buy it!

                        Went through simular stuff with my daughter and her x.

                        Add my daughter's x's drugs, alcohol ,porn , and gambling and we'd have a major best seller!

                        Pecker up as Wee melon would say!
                        Things do have a way of getting better.
                        There is Hope.

                        :l Nancy
                        "Be still and know that I am God"

                        Psalm 46:10

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                          #13
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                          Every single person here at MWO could write a soap opera (or book) about their life..I really believe that..and they would all be funny, touching & caring..every single one

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                            #14
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                            Thanks Lorelei -- I am booze free! so we shall see!... funny they just switched me from Effexor to Lexapro...

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