He DID call the cops!

[amethyst]

He DID call the cops!

satori;169168 wrote: Hey Gabster

Me? - The sugar goes right the way thru' !


Take care

Satori :l
xxx

Do you melt when you get wet, Satori?:H

[magic]

He DID call the cops!

Gabby, I've been in that movie. Except it's like a psychological thriller.

You've described it beautifully.

DON"T let the bastard do it to you again. DON"T give him that power again.

I admire you for travelling so far down the road to your freedom.

Hold you head up, girl and poke him in the eyes.

magic xx :schmokin:

[gabby]

He DID call the cops!

Satori....few and far between. But how do ya know for sure?

[SKendall]

He DID call the cops!

Gabby, he is wrong on so many levels. It is horrible that you have to endure this, but I am so glad you got your mother's table back. Stay strong.

We have some really nice guys on this board.

Hilary

[satori]

He DID call the cops!

amethyst;169174 wrote: Do you melt when you get wet, Satori?:H

Hmmmm - don't know the answer to that one - It's NEVER wet here in Scotland!

Satori

xxx

[gabby]

He DID call the cops!

I agree with you Hilary, the guys on the board here are great. I am really sorry if I sound like I'm bashin all men. Really I am.

I feel many friendships here with the guys and in real life too. But I am talkin about relationships. And once you have been burned so badly, gosh...its so hard.

[Popeye]

He DID call the cops!

What magic said....

[stillcrawling]

He DID call the cops!

Gabby -- how are you coping through all this!!!!!!! Please share your secrets!

[satori]

He DID call the cops!

gabby;169183 wrote: Satori....few and far between. But how do ya know for sure?

Well - If I could answer that - I would probably be very much in demand.

But - please, don't miss out on the fun of trying to find one of the good guys - at least now you will know pretty much all of the warning signs, so you could pre-select pretty effectively!

Take care

Satori
xxx

[lucky 2.0]

He DID call the cops!

Were the men in uniform cute? I dig uniforms!

[gabby]

He DID call the cops!

Oh Lucky!

[hart]

He DID call the cops!

((((Gabby))) Your ex pisses me off so bad. Maybe we should do all those torturous things we talked about. At least being able to picture them might help.

Hon I was arrested and put in a holding tank for speeding. Cops don't like it when you go over 100 It was humiliating (because I was guilty) but I just bailed out and went home. Went to court later and the judge knocked it down to negligent driving instead of reckless. My insurance didn't even go up....which of course, wouldn't be a factor in your case either way. It really was no big deal. And that is the WORST case scenario. And I don't believe that will happen. Keep the faith hon. We are all pulling for you.:l

[buffy]

He DID call the cops!

Hi Gabby, I am late reading your posts and my heart breaks for you. I have a lawyer friend that used to work with abused women and children. I see you are in the US, and am wondering if you have a lawyer yet, and if you have one that specializes in cases like this. There are groups that you can talk to and get help, some of the lawyers do thing pro bono.....It might be a good idea to start thinking like that if you haven't already. Do you have any pictures of his abuse, any witnesses, family, friends, there may be even people on here that might step up to the plate if needed. Do you have a diary? If he is starting this dirty sh** with the police, I would be gathering the wagons in a circle about now. I don't want to stir things up, but it is better to be prepared than not. You may have already done all this, so I am sorry if I am repeating anything that you have already thought of. Good Luck to you and I hope you stick up for yourself in any way that you can. I think it is important to get as many people on your side, and get this out in the open because if he does something crazy and nobody knows what is going on, he will be able to lie his way out of things.....maybe I have been watching the show "Snapped"....too much, but I recommend it highly...

[southernbelle47]

He DID call the cops!

Hey Gabby,
I think one way to find a good guy is to see how he treats his mom and sisters. Does he respect women?
Also look at what kind of guy his dad is or was.....
Again ,does dad respect women?

Just listen to him talk......how many times in five minutes does he say "I or me"?

Does he have a clean employment record?

Does he keep his place and himself clean?

What are his hobbies?

Spiritual beliefs?

Can he laugh at himself and admit when he is wrong and say "I'm sorry , I was wrong, please forgive me"..

Does he understand your "love language" and respond kindly to that?
Your love language is what things put + s in your "love tank"...ie..words of affirmation, kind nonsexual touch (hug or arm around you), small gifts to make you smile, listen when you talk and say back what he "hears" you saying, spending time doing something YOU like to do...
If you can find as many of these traits in a man, then the actual SEX part will work.......
Just some of my thoughts on men and women...
Glad you got your table back...if you go to jail, take a good book and get some rest!LOL!
Love you,
Nancy
ps
If you find a guy with all of the above.....please send him my way!

[gabby]

He DID call the cops!

Thanks Nancy, that is cute. Actually....the guy I am involved with does have a lot of that.
hummm