the past embarassment

[trixietrack]

the past embarassment

Starlight Impress;253017 wrote: Hi me,
My advice to you is to rise above anyone who speaks ill of you for any reason, whether it be drink-related or some entirely different matter.

The scorn and criticism of any other can only hurt if you allow it to do so. So, just rise above it, me, for you are worth a million of all the "Poison Ivy" in this world.........their acidic words and snide comments are but a fair indication that all is not well in their own lives and so they seek to direct their personal unhappiness at someone else. Sad for them, really...........

:l Starlight Impress x

mmmhmm star, love your wisdom

[Accountable for Me]

the past embarassment

satori;252873 wrote: Hiya me145

There is no point in having guilt and reliving mentally all the bad stuff you (we all) have done - absolutely none!

The past is gone - the only thing that is important is what you do right now - in the present moment.

Mentally raking over past misdeeds will not change anything - all it does is gives you a poor mental image of yourself.
This inhibits your growth.

No point in worrying about the future either - it is usually NEVER the way you imagine it is going to be!

My advice is to live life in the present - try to make the right choices minute by minute and the future will take care of itself.

By doing the right things in the present - the people you have hurt in the past will see that you have changed, that the hurtful, drunk person is gone and has been replaced by a kind, thoughtful sober one.

Over time, they will come to greatly respect you for making that change.


Take care

Love

Satori

xxx

I couldn't agree with Satori more. We can't change the past. Just be a great person today, and every day to the best of your ability!