I'm so sad right now, I'm crying

[betty boop]

First of all I have to say that no, I'm not drinking ........

I joined here 18 months ago, there was approx 400 members, St Jude, Lushy, Tawny, and a few others .........

It was a really supportive place, we were all friends .......

After another 18 months the site has grown tremendously, I admire you all in the way that you deal with your problems, but please, please, please think twice before posting. I am so sad with some of the stuff here at the minute that I am sobbing as I write, RJ really wouldn't want this, so please friends, stop squabbling.

[keeta]

I'm so sad right now, I'm crying

am I contributing BB?...I have tried to be full;y supportive? I will stop posting if I am giving a negative vibe. I honestly don't know...I am not being facetious

[betty boop]

I'm so sad right now, I'm crying

Hi Janie, It was lovely meeting you, hope that we do Prague next year .......

Keeta, you are absolutely not participating ......... don't worry hon ...

[betty boop]

I'm so sad right now, I'm crying

Janie, do you mean the tag that your daughter asked about???

I believe she said 'mum what does this tag say?'

You replied 'remove tag before giving to children!'

Sorry Janie just had to share .......

Shall we do the pregnancy stories next???

[keeta]

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ok.

[Beaches]

I'm so sad right now, I'm crying

We all need to respect one another. We are all at different places in recovery and that's why MWO is so powerful.
Respect: that is the core

[lillyatter]

I'm so sad right now, I'm crying

WHOEVER HURT BB'S FEELINGS-KNOCK IT OFF!!!!!

BB,why are you so sad???What happened?You are one of the most darling,sweet,spportive people on this site,I can't imagine who is making you feel this way??I'm sorry,I guess I shouldn't even but in when i don't even know what's going on...I have been tied up somewhere else on the site today,so please forgive my ignorance...why in the heck are all of these awesome people whho were here w/ open arms to greet me and take me in when i came in a few months ago getting bamboozled by people?Are there a few bad seeds that need to be banned?I am so sick of it!You are like the 5th or 6th person that i have read a post from saying that people are being ugly and argumentative and sticking their big fat noses in when they should just stick to why they came here in the 1st place!TO GET SUPPORT AND GIVE IT!!!omg,i am shaking right now and my eyes are ready to flow..wtf?I think there are some people that are just out to get a rise outta people and enjot starting controversy,and they just need to get the hell OUT OF HERE!!!!!I am so sorry,BB....I hope your tears are drying by now and you know wat!@FU__ IT!!!Just ignore whatever is coming to you on this site that is not positive and loving and don't forget that this is YOUR HOUSE TOO!!!!!I am still not over Satori leaving-I am HEARTBROKEN-i mean,i know that sounds silly coming from some little newbie w/ less than 100 posts,but you have to remember that the number of posts has NO relation to how much i have read and absorbed and woven myself into this place.I guess at this point i probably know YOU guys and you really don't know me from a banana,but the point I am trying to make (WHEW!SORRY,I HAVE ADHD,PLEASE BEAR W/ ME)is that i don't want to hear anymore of this crap about people (newbie OR senior) messing around w/ people feelings anymore and running off the people like YOU,:hBETTY BOOP!!!!!! that i have come to respect and look to for your wise words and strength!!F-That!i will start throwing fits bigger than my 4 yr old can throw!I will tattle and call RJ!HA!Ya hear that,people who are making people feel bad on purpose!@?!I'M NOT KIDDING!!tgis site would not even be the same w/out you,i hope you know that,BB....

OK,I am sure someone is going to post back to me to f-off,you don't know what you are talking about-well,that's ok...i really don't care!
If you or any more people that i look forward to hearing from on this site leave over anymore bull-hit,i am SO out of here.It seems like i get a stomach ache every time i get on anymore anyways.

sorry for (is this what "highjacking" a thread is?:H)ranting so long,i really intended to make you feel better,but i don't know if i accomplished that or not...

everybody here loves you,you have the CUTEST avatar of all and I hope you start feeling the love you desrve here again really soon.
p.s.sorry everbody for all of my cussing,I DO realioxze that this isn't the f--k thread
love and hugs,

[tlrgs]

I'm so sad right now, I'm crying

hi there .. bb it will all get better soon just watch. stay strong and postive bb i love reading your post

[lucky 2.0]

I'm so sad right now, I'm crying

My heart has definately ached for people on the site with their trials and tribulations and always will because people always will have trials and tribulations. But I do not think calling a spade a spade is squabbling. It just means not putting up with shit for attention.

And by even responding to this thread, it keeps the drama alive.

Just my $0.02 and I wish all the very best.

Peace-

[lorisunshine]

I'm so sad right now, I'm crying

Enough!

For Gods sake, lets all get out of the sand box, but before we do, please all, don't forget to bury your egos. Am getting a little frayed around the edges and no I did not drink........, please consider the greater purpose of this site.
Lori

[YoungAtHeart]

I'm so sad right now, I'm crying

Hi all. I understand your sadness, BB. I feel that way too. At the same time, having been here for a while, I've seen dramas come and go, and they have always died down after a bit.

The reason that I am posting this at all is to reassure people that this will settle down. I've seen it happen 3-4 times in the time that I've been here. The longer you have been here, the less upsetting it will be, although I never stop feeling sad when there is contention on the board.

Let's all take a deep breath and let the drama die down a bit. We'll all be okay.

:l :l

[KatieSmiles]

I'm so sad right now, I'm crying

Well, I 'm not much for drama
However, I will post my thoughts...lucky you
-what beaches said - says it all

Smiles
K

[lillyatter]

I'm so sad right now, I'm crying

I am SO sorry for my post...

I can imagine everyone must be thinking where the HECK didTHAT come from?I am not sure myself..And I am really embarrassed,but i so freaked out over a members post that said "help" w/ nothing else and i am more worried about it than i should be,the 2 together got me all discombobulated!(I think that is a word?)Right now is one of those times that i wish this were a real ROOM w/ all of us REAL people in it,so that i could communicte better....I don't want to bring everybody down with what in my life has got me more paranoid than I probably should be,but i think you would all understand.That is still no excuse for posting such an emotionally fueled post where it shouldn't have been ...My emotions were already flying high and then i read about BB's tears and mixed it w/ another post that i THOUGHT was kind of questioning her, and I was just like,NO:no:!!!.There have been some really amazingly special(more "senior" people,like her),that i have seen posting apologies for not wording things just right,or hurting feelings,whatever...The people who have been here forever who are our pillars of strength,the people that when they post,we listen,you know?And it has just shaken me up,I guess.Mostly because it has been crazy that they have even been made to feel like they HAVE to,when all they have done is be honest and true .But I should have just kept my mouth shut (like someone above me here said,just turn off your computer,go to another thread,etc).....I just snapped.I am so Sorry.Please forgive me my stupid dramatic (god and that is part of what has me so jumbled right now here,the D word-ick!)weirdo post,everyone,i am really not the psycho i appear to be by my post here ...I hope that you are feeling better,BB...you mean THAT much to every one here,that some kooky NEWBIE will freak out and feel like the world is coming to an end if you were to ever leave us!(Um,even though i DO understand now that you are NOT thinking of leavingI,as a newbie-nerd-ass,promise to not be one of the people starting or responding to any of the saddening posts that i think i understand that you are talking about-they will just go away,as one wise person pointed out here.Again,I am sorry everyone...ugh,to think of anyone reading a post from ME of all people and thinking "oooh,someone ELSE trying to make trouble"...makes me want to throw up!I pray everyone gets all the way down to this post when they read this thread ray:....Big hugs BB
ding-a-ling newbie who needs to get a grip and WILL,

[Accountable for Me]

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lillyatter - Rebecca..... take a deep breath. You are getting way too worked up and it isn't worth it.

There will always be 'differences' of opinions on the boards.... there will also be drama from time to time.

Everyone has a right to voice their opinions, defend themselves and defend others. This has escalated to the point where every one's emotions are running on high.

Things will die down if people stop posting about it. Like Kathy has said, I, too, have seen this before on a few occasions myself.

We just have to take a deep breath and let it all die out. There is NO point in re-hashing and pointing fingers anymore.

I don't think there is anything left to say, that hasn't already been said.

[tawnyfrog]

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This thread is now closed

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