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    #121
    underoo's jumping june jamboree.

    sunshinetoday;1328014 wrote: Bridge, if you got married would you elope? Courthouse or Vegas?
    Defo elope. Minimum fuss. Go on a holiday instead of pay for pissheads to drink.
    If your 8 year old self met you, would they be proud?
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      #122
      underoo's jumping june jamboree.

      OK Undies I have a moral quandary and need a bit of a brain storm session/past experience etc.

      If you knew a couple and knew that one member of the couple was cheating, not just once but repeatedly would you blow the whistle?
      If your 8 year old self met you, would they be proud?
      Rejoined life 20/5/19

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        #123
        underoo's jumping june jamboree.

        Bloody hell, moral quandary and I have to pick up locusts...

        I'd say yes but high possibility of blowing the friendship with both parties...well defo with one...are you sure the non cheater is non the wiser?

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          #124
          underoo's jumping june jamboree.

          You know I never even thought that he might already be aware of it

          SHE certainly thinks that he is in the dark about her extra curricular activities. She's quite smug about it actually.
          If your 8 year old self met you, would they be proud?
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            #125
            underoo's jumping june jamboree.

            I think I'd have to blab and risk blowing the friendship. Better than "What, you knew all this time and didn't tell me?"

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              #126
              underoo's jumping june jamboree.

              byebyebridgetjones;1328021 wrote: OK Undies I have a moral quandary and need a bit of a brain storm session/past experience etc.

              If you knew a couple and knew that one member of the couple was cheating, not just once but repeatedly would you blow the whistle?
              I have had this situation a couple times and have told and not told. It depends on the situation personally. My best friend is married to a guy who has cheated on her from the beginning. She is so in love with him that she would hold it against the person telling her instead of against him. Even though everyone else sees it (and I think she has some inclinations,) when someone brought it up to her, she put the friendship aside, and clearly stated that she knew exactly the man that she married, and to but out because it was her marriage and no one elses business.
              Hard place to be in Bridge. You just have to go with your gut. Some people would welcome the info and leave their partner behind if they found out they were cheating, others will think someone is just trying to break them up and doesn't want them to be happy.

              Ive learned from experience that the greater part of our happiness or misery depends on our dispositions and not on our circumstances. -Martha Washington

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                #127
                underoo's jumping june jamboree.

                tawnyfrog;1328024 wrote: I think I'd have to blab and risk blowing the friendship. Better than "What, you knew all this time and didn't tell me?"
                THAT'S what I'm afraid of. Everyone around here knows except him. Poor bastard.
                If your 8 year old self met you, would they be proud?
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                  #128
                  underoo's jumping june jamboree.

                  byebyebridgetjones;1328026 wrote: Everyone around here knows except him. Poor bastard.
                  That makes him the laughing stock in a small community. Without knowing the guy, he doesn't deserve that.

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                    #129
                    underoo's jumping june jamboree.

                    byebyebridgetjones;1328026 wrote: THAT'S what I'm afraid of. Everyone around here knows except him. Poor bastard.
                    Sometimes you hold on to what you've got even if others consider it flawed.

                    Its icky shes smug about cheating though...kind of makes you want it to come out...

                    Off on taxi runs...

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                      #130
                      underoo's jumping june jamboree.

                      sunshinetoday;1328025 wrote: I have had this situation a couple times and have told and not told. It depends on the situation personally. My best friend is married to a guy who has cheated on her from the beginning. She is so in love with him that she would hold it against the person telling her instead of against him. Even though everyone else sees it (and I think she has some inclinations,) when someone brought it up to her, she put the friendship aside, and clearly stated that she knew exactly the man that she married, and to but out because it was her marriage and no one elses business.
                      Hard place to be in Bridge. You just have to go with your gut. Some people would welcome the info and leave their partner behind if they found out they were cheating, others will think someone is just trying to break them up and doesn't want them to be happy.
                      Hmmm....true. I just wish she'd stop telling me about these conquests. I actually lined her up and told her that I didn't want to hear about it next time she picked someone up.

                      I know that if I blabbed I would be accused of all manner of things like jealousy and mischeif making.
                      I think she wants the security of a marriage, but also the freedom of my type of lifestyle as well.
                      If your 8 year old self met you, would they be proud?
                      Rejoined life 20/5/19

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                        #131
                        underoo's jumping june jamboree.

                        x posted Froglette

                        and I want details on chorizo croquettes....

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                          #132
                          underoo's jumping june jamboree.

                          tawnyfrog;1328027 wrote: That makes him the laughing stock in a small community. Without knowing the guy, he doesn't deserve that.
                          Exactly......in a city it might not be quite so crucial....
                          If your 8 year old self met you, would they be proud?
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                            #133
                            underoo's jumping june jamboree.

                            byebyebridgetjones;1328029 wrote:
                            I think she wants the security of a marriage, but also the freedom of my type of lifestyle as well.
                            Tell her she's dreamin' ...

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                              #134
                              underoo's jumping june jamboree.

                              tawnyfrog;1328032 wrote: Tell her she's dreamin' ...
                              Very controlling and manipulative person. School teacher by trade, but one of those who think they can controll the rest of the world as if it's a school room, and they're in charge.
                              If your 8 year old self met you, would they be proud?
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                                #135
                                underoo's jumping june jamboree.

                                So which party was your 'original' friend?

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