Im new to this site - just joined today.
My boyfriend moved in 4 months ago and we were going out for 16 months before that.
His behaviour was strange when we were going out but he always managed to explain it away. However in the last week Ive noticed he brings a bottle of wine and secretly drinks it in the eve and also whole bottles of spirits ..he doesnt appear drunk but seems tired etc
I cant understand how he holds it together.
Also he iis always very hot and has a high metabolism.
Im 40 and hes 46.
When I think about his mood changes over tha last year and his temper it all seems to fit together now
When I discussed it with him and said I thought he was drinking he admitted having 'a drink' now and then and said it was because he missed his friends and going out with them etc I asked if he missed the single life and he said he wanted to be with me more than anything but sometimes missed goign to the pub. .....
he also seems to be get more intimate with me when hes had a drink.
I went out with someone in my 20s who had a drinking problem so do know about about it.
We are meant to be trying for a child.
Can anyone help? Please be up front and honest however painful teh truth is .
Katy:new::thanks:
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