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[FlyAway]

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Cathy this doesn't have to be a blow out. You don't have to drink as many as you usually do. Try drinking a glass of water between each beer. Try to engage your family in a game or movie or something. You've made significant progress this week and were looking forward to healing your relationship with your husband. This doesn't have to be all or nothing tonight.

[FallenAngel]

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Cathy...
you can stop right now. That's all you have to do. Put the beer down & walk away.
A crave is NOT a command.

[FallenAngel]

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Remember last night how much you wanted this madness to stop?

[FallenAngel]

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Cathy... talk to us.
I will be here for about half an hour if you want to talk.

[cathysgottastop]

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Thank you. I ordered up the usual Friday night pizza I can tell my hubbys concerned I asked if he wanted a beer he said no he's drinking mountain dew. I feel 1 more and I'm good for the night as I'm a bit buzzed

[FallenAngel]

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glad you're back!
Did you say you're going to have another?

[cathysgottastop]

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I do want one more

[FallenAngel]

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I'm sure you might WANT one more... but you don't NEED one more. Look at your username... what does it say??

[cathysgottastop]

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I do have to stop

[FallenAngel]

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Yes you do. And you can do that right now! :l
Come on girl... call it quits with the drinking tonight, get a soft drink or make yourself some tea... that's what I'm going to do soon.

[FlyAway]

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cathysgottastop;1455175 wrote: I do want one more

Of course you feel like having another, you're addicted to the stuff just like a heroin addict is addicted to heroin. You have to stop using to break the addiction. Why not stop now and remember going to bed tonight? Why not stop now and not feel like shit tomorrow morning? Just give it a try. Drink something else.

[cathysgottastop]

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Your so right my hubby went to get food. I'm going to finally change out of the work clothes I'm still in get comfy and hang out with him I know I'm disappointing

[FallenAngel]

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Glad to hear you're going to spend time with your hubby! You've taken the first step.. and that's something to feel good about.

[FlyAway]

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cathysgottastop;1455189 wrote: Your so right my hubby went to get food. I'm going to finally change out of the work clothes I'm still in get comfy and hang out with him I know I'm disappointing

Good job Cathy. I'm not sure who you think you're disappointing, but it's not us here. You need to do this for you and your family.

[cathysgottastop]

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Thank you. He needs me. To be sober