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[YoungAtHeart]

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I'm sorry you are so depressed and afraid, Janka. I feel for you. I will pray that you get the clarity and strength that you need to deal with this situation.

Hugs,:l
Kathy

[STARLIGHT]

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Janka,
My heart goes out to you. I know how you feel. I am in that same situation. I stay because of fear being on my own. My girls are older than your kids. So, I use to stay for the girls. Even though they are closer to their father. It sounds like you have a very good job. You have gotten a lot of good advise here. Since he wants a divorce so bad, why doesn't he just move out? My situation is the other way around. My hubby wants me to move out. I'm sure we will be going through a divorce sooner or later. Thoughts and prayers are with you. You have had success with being AF for so many days. More than I have been able to do.
Blessings, Angel

[Ready4AChange]

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Sweetie,

Love, hugs and more love all coming your way from me. Check your PMs.

[propartychief]

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Lady J,
I can't add to much to the others but know that I think about you everyday.
I do agree that the environment that you are in is not conducive to your goal!!
We have talked a bunch and I think the world of and know that you don't deserve the treatment that you are receiving.
I know that it is hard to think about but maybe it is time to call it quits!

Much love !!!!!!!

Bob

[janka]

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thank you all so much for all of your very decent words ... have no clue what to do, probably nothing for now

[slightlysuze]

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Janka I'm so sad for you :l

You did so well with your AF days...and you can do that again. You can be a strong, free, happy person. We only get one life....can you spend it with someone who hurts you and your children? I think more people regret staying than regret changing, in all sorts of ways.

Take your time, and know that support is always here for you.

Suze

[InnerStrength]

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Hi Janka
Just thinking about you and hoping you are alright. Today is a new day and I know you can do this. You have clearly done this up until recently (36 out of 39 days! - great!)
Someone said something to me once that kind of stuck with me and I hope you wont mind if I share: There are a million excuses to drink; but there is never any good reason.

Keep strong
Jen

[betty boop]

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Janka, I can't add anything that hasn't already been said, but i'm sending you hugs ...:l :l :l :l

[KateH1]

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Janka,

Just wanted you to know, that you are on my mind. I hope that today is going well for you.

I also thought of a book that you might enjoy. "You Can Heal Your Life" by Louise Hay. This is one of my favorites.

Have Peace, my friend
Kate

[Happier]

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Janka,
My heart goes out to you.
Sounds like you really need to talk to a professional to get out of this situation because if you are afraid of your husband, that is not good. Don't be afraid of rebuilding your life for yourself and your children.
I am sending you hugs Janka xxoo

[Beaches]

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Janka, just wanted to let you know I am out here thinking about you too and sending you much strength and hugs.

[janka]

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thanks everyone ... really blew it last night. husband slept at his mother's house ... i am a mess

[KateH1]

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Janka,

I just want to offer you my support. I know this is tearing you up. Practice extreme self care right now. In time you will know what to do.

Hugs,
Kate

[charlee]

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We are all here for you Janka......sending you hugs:huggy :huggy :huggy :huggy

[janka]

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thanks ... this is really bad