What does this tell you about me?
Hi Patty,
I sincerely doubt my wife would do anything just to fit in and her having a drink is just her being her normal self and as I mentioned she has maybe 2 drinks a week at most where I had 2 an hour.
I am more aligned with Socky in that I don't want my issue over whether I drink AL or not (which is a firm not) to become a concern not so much of hers but now also her responsibility because of what she may do or then have to *not* do for fear of upsetting my apple cart.
I'm going strong on my day 11 having done so without having to burden her with this issue and I have made the commitment to discuss this with her I'm just not ready yet. I just feel I need a little more time to better understand the why elements of this process I am in right now.
I haven't hurt her up to now by my drinking for she would be the first to jump all over me for it if I had. I do know she will be very happy for me but I have not found my calling yet as to whether I will me firmly committed to AF or at some time just more responsible. I want that to be my decision and not influenced by her actions or her expectations.
I'm still picking up the pieces.
Hi Patty,
I sincerely doubt my wife would do anything just to fit in and her having a drink is just her being her normal self and as I mentioned she has maybe 2 drinks a week at most where I had 2 an hour.
I am more aligned with Socky in that I don't want my issue over whether I drink AL or not (which is a firm not) to become a concern not so much of hers but now also her responsibility because of what she may do or then have to *not* do for fear of upsetting my apple cart.
I'm going strong on my day 11 having done so without having to burden her with this issue and I have made the commitment to discuss this with her I'm just not ready yet. I just feel I need a little more time to better understand the why elements of this process I am in right now.
I haven't hurt her up to now by my drinking for she would be the first to jump all over me for it if I had. I do know she will be very happy for me but I have not found my calling yet as to whether I will me firmly committed to AF or at some time just more responsible. I want that to be my decision and not influenced by her actions or her expectations.
I'm still picking up the pieces.
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