AF Daily Mon Nov 2nd 09

[SAUSAGE]

Hello all - thought I'd start everyone off today

Not been around for a few days, feeling v rough with fluey cold, - although feeling a little better today but still not right.

Hope everyone had a good Halloween

I'll be back later

Sausage x

[Guitarista]

AF Daily Mon Nov 2nd 09

Hi Snag's. Haven't seen you for a long time. Apart from the flu, how have you been?

[SAUSAGE]

AF Daily Mon Nov 2nd 09

After over 8 months AF I started drinking again, and hated myself for it, but I'm trying to go AF again now, although it's not easy - don't know how I ever managed the 8 months

[Suni]

AF Daily Mon Nov 2nd 09

don't know how I ever managed the 8 months

But you DID! And that means you can do it again.
If I ever read a post on here from someone who is happy to have statrted drinking again once they have managed to stop then I'll have a drink myself!

[Doggygirl]

AF Daily Mon Nov 2nd 09

Hello Sausage and Guitarista and Happy Monday to all in AbLand.


HATE THE BOOZE, NOT THE SELF!!


Would you like to know my opinion about hating ourselves because we drank???? Sausage, thank you for getting things going today, and I hope you feel much better soon both physically (flu/cold) and mentally (stop beating yourself up!). I can definitely relate to the difficultly dragging back to the wagon. That's exactly how it felt for me too after the "experiment" to see if I was "fixed." While I would rather not have spent an additional 8 months of my life drinking, I am seeing a benefit now in my motivation level to NOT ever "experiment" to see if I'm "fixed" again. So maybe that will become your blessing in disguise too!

Maslow - WOW I loved reading about your terrific experience at your baptism. I'm glad you shared that. Realizing that we are worth loving - and not just by family - is a wonderful, wonderful thing. Hang onto that gift and don't let go!!! There is a light for all of us at the end of the tunnel whether we always see it or not. When you share your positive experience, that's what helps me see that maybe it's possible for me too.

Loppy - it is great to have you back with us and congrats on your Sober Sunday!!

Cindi - it sounds like you had a terrific Halloween with the g-kids. I will be sending you huge strength and hope vibes today for your travels. I'm sure your sponsor has armed you with all the AA related travel tools - don't be afraid to use them!!! YOU CAN DO THIS!!!

Pamina - I always used to think "everyone drinks at parties and I will look odd if I don't." In reality, I was usually one of a very small % of HARD over - drinkers at any given party. The vast majority of people either drank a moderate amount or not at all. Amazing how "off" our perceptions of these things can be. You just wait. There is a fly fishing partner out there for you too.

Kate and Det - I don't want to hear all the juicy details of your romantic Sundays. Why? Because your married so that makes it no fun. I only like the juicy details of the love lives of single people. :H But here is hoping Deter's mood thingy came true for both of you!

Peace - you are SCARIN' me with that avatar! :H I bet the kids had great fun at your house. I would have!

LVT - can I come to your house for Puking Pumpkin and Witch Finger leftovers??? I'm :H that the kids wouldn't eat the cookies. THAT must be a first!

Lav - just the mention of New Orleans brings back some memories that make me :egad:! What a crazy place that can be. Hope you enjoyed your lazy day!

Hello to anyone I might have missed from yesterdays thread and also any Daily AFers who didn't get a chance to post yesterday. I hope that Leelou and Suni and all the other newly AF'ed folks are hangin' in there!

I had an emotionally exhausting day yesterday, but as things usually do - everything worked out for the best. Trying to simplify my life by keeping my motives honest and my heart peaceful is really helping. I'm learning how to handle difficult situations appropriately and without booze. Baby Steps. AF Life is good. I've been to an early AA meeting already so my head is on straight and I'm ready for the day ahead!

Strength and hope,

DG

[Lavande]

AF Daily Mon Nov 2nd 09

Good morning Abbers!

I feel encouraged - woke up to sunshine for the first time in quite a while

Hi to Sausage, glad you're back. Stick with us, we intend to only move forward!!
Hello to Guitarista & Suni too!

DG, I'm in 100% agreement with you - hate the booze not the self! I know I can't change my history but I sure can learn from it. There will be no experimenting for me! I feel my head is on straight too - wish my neck would stop hurting though Old age is catching up with me I think.......

I have lots of work & stuff to do this morning before my grandson, the energizer bunny arrives this afternoon!
Wishing everyone a terrific AF Monday!
Lav

[LVT25]

AF Daily Mon Nov 2nd 09

Hello friends!

It's great to see some familiar faces here again! And also the new ones!

Positive vibes from me (as well as prayers) to those that struggle.

Our nice fall weather is back, so I hope to get some outside projects done as well as get my house back in order. I was asked to serve "meals on wheels" again this month, which I always enjoy because I feel I'm helping someone in need.

The inner debate I have going on right now is whether to have my kids get vaccinated against H1N1 tomorrow. Originally I talked to my friends in public health and they said absolutely--esp the one that got so sick with the seasonal flu last year. So, I signed them up for the clinic at school, and when I told hubby he.....well, lets just say he disagreed pretty strongly. So, I started asking around, and one of my friends (who works at the school, but is a nurse) is against it as well. Then I come here and read the opinions and some of the articles....wow. I told hubby last night that I understood why he felt the way he did, but this is probably something we need to discuss, rather than just fly off the handle about. Anyway, they were discussing the subject on FOX news this morning and he said..."go ahead, I guess". The clinic is tomorrow, of course the boys do not want to "shot". and I'm not sure if we get to choose the nasal mist or not.
I've decided I need to pray more and worry less and these decisions would be easier, but so far it's not working......I'm thinking about vaccinating one but not the other. I just don't know at this point. I'm going to call the school nurse and get her opinion since she is also a friend of mine. I know some of you have strong opinions about this, and I will say, if it was for me I would not get it, but I want to do the right thing for my kids.

Always something!!! But at least we are blessed with freedom of choice, huh?

Have a great day/week all--soberly and hungoverly. (althought I did have a bit of a sugar hangover yesterday--yuck!):h

[KateH1]

AF Daily Mon Nov 2nd 09

Good Morning Abbers!
Here we are, Monday again......the Holiday season is officially upon us! I admit...I love the Holidays! I especially love them now that I no longer drink alcohol! Holidays bring only Joy and Happiness and wonderful memories created now......I am so grateful!

Sausage.....8 months shows that you can live without alcohol. Getting back on track can be a challenge, but you know that it is doable......we are all here for you! Damn, the havoc that just one drink, the first drink wreaks on our lives....But, you will get back on track....XO

DG....as always thank you for your recap!! You are awsome!

I am wishing everyone here, a sober, safe and I look forward to all of our sharing this week!
XX

[Suni]

AF Daily Mon Nov 2nd 09

I hope that Leelou and Suni and all the other newly AF'ed folks are hangin' in there!

Thanks Yeah. I'm cruisin. Day17. I had some down periods over the weekend where I wanted to drink and felt the strong psychological urge that I 'needed' one! P.S. But as I said right at the start. I do not intend to question my decision to give up no matter what. I'm done. I don't drink. It's the only way I want to do it. We're over dude! Adios amigo. Go break someone's else's heart.

[Marshy]

AF Daily Mon Nov 2nd 09

Hi all,

Flying in (cooking dinner). Just wanted to say, Suni - what a fantastic attitude you have! Very positive. I was a wreck at day 17 (and then some) :H

Have a good day/ eve all!

[Suni]

AF Daily Mon Nov 2nd 09

Thanks Marshy.

Just as well you can't see me! :wow:

[greeneyes]

AF Daily Mon Nov 2nd 09

Hi abberoos!

Quick hello - busy with work! Hope everybody is well.

[ronaldolover]

AF Daily Mon Nov 2nd 09

I'm new to this thread, but hoping it can help me. I am on day 1.....and need to stay AF for so many reasons. I have let down myself and those I love. I have to say that I think I am definitely ready to have a holiday season where I actually remember what happened....because normally I am so drunk I have no clue! That is my goal....wish me luck!

[KateH1]

AF Daily Mon Nov 2nd 09

RL...It takes a lot more than luck to get and stay sober.....what is your plan? Are you using the supplements? Share with us.......we will support you. Remember this above all.....leave no room or excuses for Alcohol...Never take drink #1....that is really the only drink that we have to resist!
Best Wishes!

[mountaingirl]

AF Daily Mon Nov 2nd 09

I am so glad that I found MWO. The post are so positive and it really helps to go through these daily to get some positive vibes. I am on day 7af and feel great! Supplements are helping definitely. I am ready to beat this! Happy Monday to all and look forward to many more af days with all of you