March Miracles~March 2018

[SKendall]

Re: March Miracles~March 2018

Cyn, another lovely quote. I hope the birds find food. When we had our weekend house in Ontario,we were feeding a lot of birds, mostly grossbeaks and if we didn't go up for the weekend hubs would drive up to add more feed into the feed stations. He was good about things like that. I don't know where you live, but are bears common?

Pauly, I agree about the dog. I get mad when people take on dogs and don't exercise them.:cuss:

Star, I agree with others, you must have the space you need. If a part time job will help the situation, go for it. If you want to. You are doing really well.

Lav, glad you got lots of sunshine it is spring after all. It's just frustrating to get snow so far into March. I hope you get more good weather.

We had 70's today and 80 tomorrow. I
ran out of time today before my list was finished. I'll do better tomorrow. Viv is coming Saturday.

See you tomorrow.

[Snoopy56]

Re: March Miracles~March 2018

Good morning...

Busy day yeseterday, slept well last night and for that I am grateful. Eating lighter is helping me to feel lighter and sleep better. I have to go to the store today so will continue to buy salads and make veggie soups for lunches and dinners. We are supposed to get 6+ inches of snow tomorrow, not happy about that but my boots are getting me through.

Skendall, you sound positive, hope you day is great.

Pauly, any plans today on your day off? Hope you sleep well and have fun today.

Cyn, spring wants to push winter away,right now spring is just not winning. Spoke to my son today and he is doing well working out of town, away from the homophobes. People here really hate gay people and will do what they can to hurt him, it has always been this way and is horrible. Good christians too, I have to fight against being bitter. I just don't understand what the big deal is or the need to be a hater. Nice to be busy but hope you can make a little time for yourself too. We all need that.

Lav, I am just going to work on my resume for now, I am kind of up and down, doing my best to create a new life for myself. I have met alot of nice ladies at AA, went to a great meeting last night with my next door neighbor, and we signed up for a retreat in July. Today I am supposed to meet a work friend for lunch and a little shopping at the mall by my house, so that should be fun. 47 days AF today and I am feeling better and better, this time is so different, lots of face to face support, working on learning more about myself and others related to sobriety and it feels so different. I wish I had the courage to do this a long time ago, but working I would not have had the time to spend on myself, so it is working out the way it should. What have you been cooking lately? I would love some new ideas. Glad you were able to spend some time with your grandsons!

Off to make breakfast, have a wonderful AF Friday.

[treegirl]

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Morning ll - just a quick note as I am getting my pup to the Vet for an early laser treatment. He has been struggling with the stirs and wobbly walking, and these treatment and chiropractic have really helped. $$$$, but money well spent, I just can't watch him suffer... and at 60 lbs, I can't carry him upstairs.

Greetings to all -

Pauly, I agree about adding a dog to that household... not fair to anybody in that house... maybe they can find a good responsible shelter (not the pound) where they will look for the right home for him. How did hubs work go?

SK, I love hearing about the warmth and the roses... glad to hear a visit with Viv is in the works!

Lav, glad you had some sun yesterday! We did too - now I just need to get out there... I only put the new feeders up and took them down at night. That was my outside time yesterday.

Star, SO glad that you have found a good AF Tribe. It sounds like all is going well for you, and the Universe provided. Yes, I think the key for your son is living in a place where people are sensible and not so friggin' judgmental! Good luck with the resume - smart move.

Putting that same affirmation out there today - it's a nice shot in the arm!

"I have amazing strength within me". Go forth, all!!!!!

[paulywogg]

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Morning friends,Star,great job on 47 days,,I'm trailing a bit behind you,following your lead I duuno why people are like that,claim to be Christians yet have hate against certain people,that's why I don't go to church,I hated living in UT,seemed they judged hubs and I cuz he's white and I'm not,just looks and stares constantly and I'm not even THAT ethnic looking,screw that Michelle is gonna drive me to the loony bin I swear,she's back with him,I posted a bit on it on the daily but I'm done talking about it,Cyn,that dog they took on is too crazy! I think he's still a puppy and he pees in the house,sheds all over Kell's couch,fights with Dottie,what a situation and he smells extra "doggy" for some reason even after a bath,glad it's them not me,I know I can't handle two dogs at this point,after having Dottie over here with Winslow for the week Kell had Romeo,I know what work goes into it and Dots is a great dog,very easy but two together is too mucho! Love the quote,thank you,Lav,it has to be the Relizen making me poofy,the fiber but I do drink tons of water,its not that big of a deal tho,SK,yes you do sound positive,keep it up wishes for a happy,happy BF Friday!

[SKendall]

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Star, your AF life is a great success. I love it that you can meet up with these beautiful people on a regular basis. What a gift. Sorry your son has these hypocritical haters. There are many, many Christians where I live and some are hypocritical. I'm sorry for both of you in that regard.

Cyn, not too sure what your job description is but it sounds as if you are organizing a summer fair, and helping organize some folks too. If that is the case you will probably get busier. Breathe.

Lav, sorry that insomnia is at work again. I read recently that 1 in 3 Americans suffer from sleep disorders, that's a bunch. I use Trazodone when necessary, it's non-addictive and works for me. I'm remembering that you are not fond of it, and why the heck am I making suggestions to a nurse!

My pot roast didn't turn out well. I didn't sear it before putting it in the crockpot so it bled out during the cooking. I used those little pearl onions, so ate them with the carrots. I went to Whole Foods for lunch - $15.00! I had the lobster chowder, and salad with beets, spinach, roasted carrots and boiled egg. I have enough leftover for dinner, so it does make the price cheaper, I grew up on beets, so I love them. These were raw beets cut on a spiral machine, and so very sweet.

Took Peggy to the groomer, but her rabies shot just expired, so have to do that before her nails get clipped. Doing housework to the best of my ability. Weather very windy and overcast. See you later.

[Lavande]

Re: March Miracles~March 2018

Good evening folks,

We took advantage of another sunny, warmish day & spent some time outside & visited an Amish surplus store, ha ha! The things you can find are just amazing & cheap. I came home with a set of things to start a fairy garden dish for my granddaughter. I think there's some plants in the greenhouse that we can use too. She be here for a night or two next week so we'll have some fun with that project.

Star, you are doing just great on your AF plan. I am happy that you have found mutual friends, that's awesome.
As far as cooking, I am trying to lighten things up a bit too. This winter has been harsh on my weight, ugh. To be honest I am relying this week mostly on the turkey breast I roasted last weekend turning it into soups, salads & even a relatively lowfat, dairy free pot pie. I eat just a little turkey on top of a giant green salad & I am happy.
YB's lab work this week revealed some issues that he needs to work on himself. Slightly high FBS, LDL cholesterol & AG ratio. I've told him for years to cut back on the animal products, maybe now he will.
It's nice to hear your son has found some relief in his new location. Honestly. people can be so ridiculously harsh for absolutely no reason. It must be the Mike Pence effect, huh???
The snow you are going to get is supposed to only show up here on Sunday as a snow shower then it warms up afterwards for the rest of the week.

SK, I noticed someone's house nearby today that had a whole bunch of daffodils blooming in a bed right up against the side of their house that gets full sun Seeing that gave me a little hope for spring.
I hope you enjoy your visit with Viv & can do something fun together! Sounds like you are doing pretty well despite certain limitations.

Pauly, that's sad about Michelle & the BF. It's her choice I know. Don't worry too much & throw yourself into a panic. You have to look out for yourself too.
Bringing a strange dog into a house with two young kids is just not a great idea. I crate train all of my dogs, for their safety as well as the safety of the people in the house. Maybe you can plant that idea in their heads & see what happens.

Cyn, bringing those feeders in at night is a good idea! We have ad bird feeders wrecked by raccoons & that's bad enough.
I pray for more sunshine & melting for the both of us Take care of yourself & get some fresh air when you can. I hope your doggie gets some relief.

Have a nice night everyone!
Lav

[treegirl]

Re: March Miracles~March 2018

Hello all --

SK, thinking about you today and hoping you have a swell time with Viv! I second Lav's comment - you are doing so well managing your life, very inspiring...

Pauly, dear Pauly, what a load of chaos you are observing. Great job knowing that you must take care of yourself first and foremost -- serious,y, like they say on the airplanes "Put your own mask on before assisting others". Love the chickens idea -- I knew people in our desert city that kept chickens, so there must be some breeds that can stand the heat.

Star, congrats on your accumulating AF days! It's amazing isn't it, the feeling of a different, clearer life that emerges. You go girl!

Lav, that Amish store sounds like a fun place. I think I'll try to find a fairy garden to start for myself! I used to love that kind of stuff -- little joys. Sounds like some cellular inflammation might be contributing to YB's hand situation, possible? Whenever my HB complains about his arthritis in one knuckle (he said itwoke him up one night) I tell him to think back through the foods he had the day before... but that's easy, he's addict d to gluten and sugar - preferably together!

Well, my taxes are not going to get onto the tax man by his deadline today... again yesterday I spent the day writing and writing and fielding calls, etc. Worked on taxes from 7 to midnight, then gave up. HB is coming home for today and tomorrow - he's only been in the city less than 2 weeks, but it seems much longer to both of us... I'm glad that I'm putting taxes to the side so that we can spend quality time together...

SK, I have 2 businesses- my main one as an organizer and move coordinator, and a second where I am (allegedly) a part-time writer of copy for marketing and development. That morphed into a communications and patron services, and now ticketing, sheesh.I am now wrapping up the long days them - my organizing clients are all headed back up to the northeast after wintering in the south, and I will have a big move to manage in April, so that business will pick up soon. Always a balancing act, but these nutty long days have to stop!

Let's put this on out there again today:
"I attract healthy relationships". Say it loud and believe it! Wishing all a great Saturday --

[paulywogg]

Re: March Miracles~March 2018

Morning friends,Cyn yep a lot of people here have a few chickens,they weren't supposed to cuz the law only allowed them outside city limits that's why a lot of people were happy that they lifted the law,hope your day is good SK,enjoy your visit,Star,hope you enjoy your day,Lav,I think I could live off turkey and salads,sounds great! Wishing us all a great AF Saturday!

[SKendall]

Re: March Miracles~March 2018

Well, Vivian came - along with her mother who stayed!! I just texted her that I find it unacceptable and don't want to read her reply. As Cyn so perfectly said "I only attract healthy relationships" I'm tired of her 'tude.

I came pretty close to guessing your jobs. Now, where do you live? No need to disclose!

Pauly, what's the deal with drugs and guns with the bf. That is trouble waiting to happen. Louie and Romeo are in danger's way.


Lav, I would have loved a snoop in the Amish shop.

Star, I hope your life continues in a good direction as far as you are concerned. Son will be finding his own direction, I hope.

Already got a text from DD. I am not reading it because I want to keep my good mood.:happy2:

[Lavande]

Re: March Miracles~March 2018

Good evening friends,

Another day or two of melting & all this snow should be gone, yay! We went out & hauled straw & pine chips home today - time for spring cleaning in the chicken house & get the 'teenage quarters' ready. I want to have the little ones moved out there by mid-week. They have totally outgrown their laundry room bucket, ha ha!

Cyn, I'll bet the tax man has plenty to do to keep him busy until he gets your papers
Glad to hear you have a few days to spend with your husband.
As far as YB's arthritic woes - I've seen his xrays, ugh. He is literally dealing with a bone rubbing bone situation in his wrist. He has a brace to wear but keeps taking it off. He actually is starting to listen to my suggestions though & has stopped doing certain movements & it taking the Ibuprofen 2X daily. Pain that wakes you up at night is the worst

Pauly, here's your list of heat tolerant chickens. If someone tries to sell you chicks that are not on this list - don't buy them. You will have to provide them shade & plenty of cold water & iced treat when they are older. Heat Hardy Chicks for Sale
My chicken 'project' was a good thing for me & I still love having them. I needed something else to worry about besides my own BS when I first started with them

SK, glad you got to see Viv. Her mother didn't give you a reason for her presence? Trust issues a little? Sorry about that. I wouldn't play her games either, good for you standing up for yourself! Nothing stays the same for long - things will change again

Star, hope you had a good day.
I went ahead & preordered Rick Hanson's new book- Kindle version. I love his writing too, down to earth & sensible.

Wishing everyone a nice night!

Lav

[paulywogg]

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Thanks for the list Lav,SK,I have 3 daughters and I'm not referring to Lou and Romeos mom when mentioning the situation

[Snoopy56]

Re: March Miracles~March 2018

Good morning...

It snowed here all day, it was crazy. I went and exercised and not much else, watched a couple of chick flicks, the went out for pizza and watched Snatched with Goldie Hawn and Amy Schumer. Lots of TV yesterday, not much else to do. The snow was almost 10 inches here, crazy stuff but it will melt today and tomorrow. Hoping this is the last snow of the season.

SK, did your daughter want to visit with you? Hope the visit went well. I really hope you and your family can resolve the conflict, as Viv will grow up so fast. I don't know if I mentioned this, but we had a little stress on our vacation due to baby crying at night and at times we were all kind of crabby. I made a point to text my daughter and son-in-law after the trip, apologizing if I said anything or was a bi***. I just focused on my part, not theirs, and the air is cleared and we are all good. Just a thought. Sometimes families have a hard time and its a good idea to reach out if you can. If you can't, that's the way it is.

Pauly, sorry Michelle is back and forth, that makes it hard on you and the situation continues. My son is still struggling of course, and it is hard on me. I woke up in a panic again last night, can't remember dreams, but it is the stress of all that is going on. Life happens and we do the best we can. I can tell you not drinking is really helping me though. I can say, "well, at least I am not drinking," and feel happy about that, and I do. I have been tempted a few times, but on a scale of 1-10, the cravings have only been a three, a passing thought. There is no way I am going to drink, today. How have you been doing with all of it? Glad we are on similar journey.

Cyn, I do want to go back to some kind of work in the next few months. I did not work on my resume yesterday, but will soon and decide on what to apply for. You sound so busy, that is too much for me, but I do want to have useful work. Isn't it great about the young people in our country protesting for reasonable gun laws? So proud of them, there is hope. Have a lovely time with your husband this weekend. May spring begin for you soon.

Lav, you are keeping busy and sound content, very happy for you. That book does look good, I may order it too. I have so many books I am reading now, related to sobriety. In AA the spiritual part is so important and I think that is what I was missing. I quit for months at a time, but always went back. This time with the meetings, spirituality, self-reflection, and accountability I know I will make it. My thinking is so messed up at times. We all have to find our own way. Any ideas for April names? Accountable, Achieving, Appropriate, Appreciate....

Have a peaceful AF Sunday.

[treegirl]

Re: March Miracles~March 2018

Morning all -

Sounds like everyone is ptogressing well!

SK, good job protecting your boundaries and good mood. I hope Viv was able to 'be herself' while her mom was there. I think many of us have very special memories of our times with our grandmothers.

Lav, ouch YB's hand situation sounds terrible, good that he is listening to you. Ah, I am imagining the scent of pine chips , I just love that. Good luck cleaning out the coop - I bet that is quite the situation. Some melting here, it will be awhile befe it is all gone, but I am staring to see patches of grass.

Star, so glad you are able to strengthen the health of your relationships. Sorry about the night-time panic - I know you know how to handle it, breathing etc. May the right job come your way! Congrats on your AF work...

Pauly. Things are always hopping at your house! I agree, though I would prefer not to eat meat, now that I am back on a low food-maps diet, lean protein and (for me) sautéed greens it getting me through. Fortunately I can find good organic, free range turkey around here. Wishing you a good boundary-filled day off!

I am starting to have dreams where the car I am driving loses it's brakes, or my feet get tangles and I can't reach the pedal... I guess we know where that comes from! But early this morning I had a version where I was able to reach the brake pedal with my hands, and drove into a convenience store through the door, didn't hit anything, and then backed out again. Hysterical, but s.c.a.r.y. HB was here only overnight, and I have a longish drive today to take him back to the train (lots of tracks are still under repair from the storms) . I wonder if he'll let me drive ��!

Here's something we can embrace for the whole week -

"I am fulfilled and grateful"

Cheers all for a good Sunday!

[paulywogg]

Re: March Miracles~March 2018

Morning friends,Star,was Snatched good? I hate to say it but I can't stand Amy Shumer,,she just bugs me,,I'm doing ok on the AL front,I think due to that I started to take Lavs advice and suggestions on getting my hormones more steady,I still have tiny thoughts here and there but I tell myself"drive thru the neighborhood but don't stay long" when a thought comes,I don't want to drink and go back to all that chaos bleh,good news that I posted on the daily is that Michelle's boyfriend left town to go stay with his mom,she's here again sad but she'll get through,I told her to just work as much as she can,get some money saved and she'll be able to get her own apartment,certainly don't need to be with any guy that treats her bad,she if my words stick.SK,did your daughter visit with you at all when you was over? At least you got to see Vivian for a bit,Cyn,I'm with Star,you stay sooooo busy I'd be exhorsted! I feel like I stay busy enough with my easy job,exercise,cleaning and watching the boys and that's all easy stuff,you work harder than me but it obviously works for you Lav,thanks again for the chick list,I gotta have hubs buiid a coop,he just started his job this week and is keeping busy with that,getting used to the paperwork and stuff,was gonna mention that every time I take flaxseed that I grind up about an hour later I can't catch my breath,does that sound like an allergy? Think I'm gonna toss it out,that feeling is scary,sorry about YBs hand situation,sounds painful,wishes for a great AF Sunday!

[Lavande]

Re: March Miracles~March 2018

Ugh, I just lost my whole post & it won't auto-restore

Guess I'll just say Hello & Goodnight to all!

Can't believe I'll be waking up to my 9 year AF anniversary. If I can do it so can all of you :hug:

Lav