going against the grain
Personally - I am fascinated by husband's ex stories (I may be slightly demented though) - I appreciate the openess and am not left wondering or filling in the gaps incorrectly and if other women confide in him over lunch or anywhere, I feel honoured that women feel they get something of value from him. I have no qualms whom he talks to and what it is about, he is a free willing person and so am I. Incase you are wondering, we are not in an open relationship. Hell, chat and posting with other women/men, isn't that the same deal as so called risque lunches? We are all just people, some of us just have boobs.
You do get more confident in your relationship as time goes on and if you happen to be able to live in the same country! Female friendships are a thing to treasure and I certainly adore my male friends. At the end of the day it is about what sits well between a couple and that is a complex thing, just like a relationship - but if you love someone, set them free to enjoy life within bounds of respect, trust and what so ever other glue keeps you together (little tip - alcohol is the lousiest glue - worse than lunches with women).
Anyhow that was my $6000 worth - Hundi
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