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    Sounds like everyone had a pleasant NYE !

    We did as well...... though not without temptation. Our friend had brought over some egg liquer and my brother had bought a small bottle of champagne and bottle of alcohol free wine. I ended up adding a small splash of the egg liquer to my coffee for flavoring, and to drink with dinner I made myself a spritzer with the alcohol free wine, cranberry juice and a dollup of champagne (very tasty). I know some people would consider this drinking, but for me, if I'm doing it purely for taste without getting any sort of effect / intoxication I don't consider it as such. I realize that it gets into the territory of a fine line or a slippery slope so to speak, but I was always the kind of person that didn't think drinking was worthwhile unless you got a proper buzz (3-4 beers and a couple shots of whiskey was a light drinking night for me), so the line to me seems pretty clear. You might say this is dangerous, that I'm dancing with the devil, and maybe I am, I don't know. But it also might show how far I've come that I can handle some tiny amounts like this purely for taste, that I can go right to the edge without going over; maybe it's the ultimate test in a way (because I'm not gonna lie, of course there was a part of me that still wanted to grab that bottle and chug, but not giving in to that impulse in the end is the key).

    And hope everyone has a good year ahead!
    Last edited by Mulburry; January 1, 2025, 10:23 PM.

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      Be careful Mulburry, alcohol is cunning. Of the many times that I've relapsed, it often started with just one glass of wine. I thought that I'd be fine but several days later the cravings for booze became unbearable and I would inevitably start drinking "full-time" again. For me, even a little bit of alcohol awakens the devil that is addiction.

      Glad that everyone had a good New Years Eve with no hangovers the next day.

      Who wants to join me for another 24 hours of freedom?

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        Tread carefully, Mulburry. I know you will. You have come to far to let it slip away.

        Off to my volunteer job.

        Another 24 hours of freedom for all of us here, please and thank you.
        Dill

        Dont forget, you can: start late, start over, be unsure, try and fail AND STILL SUCCEED!

        If it is important to you, you will find a way. If not, you will find an excuse.

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          5:25am in Alberta, 24 more please, and thanks...

          In the last 24 hours, these friends have joined in for 24 hours of wellness:
          Jude58 dill Ginger999 Rava Mulburry

          Today is going to be a darn good day not to drink!
          Quitting and staying quit isn't easy, its learning a whole new way of thinking. It's accepting a new way of life, and not just accepting it, embracing it...
          Worry about tomorrow, tomorrow. Just get through today. Tomorrow will look after itself when it becomes today, because today is all we have to think about.
          Friendship is not about how many friends you have or who you've known the longest. It's about who walked into your life, said "I'm here for you", and proved it.

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            Have a safe trip back south tomorrow Rava, funerals are always hard to attend but so worth going and showing that we care.

            Don't dance with the devil too often Mulburry, don't need you getting back together with that dance partner. Glad you got through it okay though.
            Quitting and staying quit isn't easy, its learning a whole new way of thinking. It's accepting a new way of life, and not just accepting it, embracing it...
            Worry about tomorrow, tomorrow. Just get through today. Tomorrow will look after itself when it becomes today, because today is all we have to think about.
            Friendship is not about how many friends you have or who you've known the longest. It's about who walked into your life, said "I'm here for you", and proved it.

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              Good morning Cafe. Mul, I agree with the others to tread lightly and carefully but you know where it leads and I am confident that you won’t slide back into that black hole. I consider myself California sober because I still occasionally use gummies. My drug of choice is always alcohol. So I technically fight that every day. The gummies do not sit the same with me as alcohol and I can take them or leave them whereas alcohol draws me in. We are all here because of our weaknesses and we always get the support and strength from each other. Hope everyone has a great and sober day! 24 more please and thank you.

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                Slept in! I'll take another day of freedom.

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                  Good morning cafe! Quiet here this morning, but the snow will be moving in later on. In my area we are only supposed to get around 6 inches or so but about an hour north of us folks may be getting 2-3 ft.of the white stuff. At least the skiers and snow lovers will be happy!

                  Rava, I am also "California sober" and can take it or leave it. I don't crave it like I did with booze, but I do know that I need to be careful due to my addictive nature.

                  Hope that everyone has a wonderful, sober day. 24 more please...

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                    Good morning Cafe. Today is travel day. They are calling for a snowstorm here at the tiny house in just 3 days so we are getting out of town just in time! Hopefully no delays and if all goes as planned we should be home by 7 pm. Fingers crossed. We said our goodbyes to everyone and now ready to move on to warmer weather. Now I just have to make a plan when I grocery shop to avoid the wine section! Hope everyone has a wonderful Friday. 24 more please and thank you.

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                      Safe travels, Rava! Perfect timing on your part, I must say!

                      Jude, I woke up to snow falling. It looks like it's stopped now and we got maybe 2-3 inches. The rest of the day will be clouds, winds and cold. So, while it's pretty, it's also pretty uncomfortable, with a "feels like" temperature of 5F. (-15C) Unfortunately, I need a few things from the grocery, so I guess I'll get to experience it later this morning! Did you have to get out in the weather to get to work?

                      Ginger, I bet that sleep in felt good!

                      24 more for all of us here, please and thank you.

                      Dill

                      Dont forget, you can: start late, start over, be unsure, try and fail AND STILL SUCCEED!

                      If it is important to you, you will find a way. If not, you will find an excuse.

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                        5:22am in Alberta, another 24 for me please, and thanks...

                        In the last 24 hours, these friends have joined in for 24 hours of wellness:
                        Jude58 dill Rava Ginger999

                        Today is going to be a darn good day not to drink!
                        Quitting and staying quit isn't easy, its learning a whole new way of thinking. It's accepting a new way of life, and not just accepting it, embracing it...
                        Worry about tomorrow, tomorrow. Just get through today. Tomorrow will look after itself when it becomes today, because today is all we have to think about.
                        Friendship is not about how many friends you have or who you've known the longest. It's about who walked into your life, said "I'm here for you", and proved it.

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                          6" of snow is more then enough to deal with Jude, don't know how anyone would deal with 2 - 3 feet of it!

                          It's cold here as well dill, -31C (-24F) and -39 with the wind chill. Thankfully it's only supposed to be the one night of this bitter cold.
                          Quitting and staying quit isn't easy, its learning a whole new way of thinking. It's accepting a new way of life, and not just accepting it, embracing it...
                          Worry about tomorrow, tomorrow. Just get through today. Tomorrow will look after itself when it becomes today, because today is all we have to think about.
                          Friendship is not about how many friends you have or who you've known the longest. It's about who walked into your life, said "I'm here for you", and proved it.

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                            Minus anything is unimaginable to me. Stay safe if you shovel, guys.

                            Safe travels, Rava. I'm hoping our store clears out the booze on every end cap soon. Hard to shop with your eyes closed. Bahaha

                            Hubby wants to go to the gem and mineral show today so off we go after yoga! Should be fun. I'll take another day!

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                              Originally posted by Jude58 View Post
                              Be careful Mulburry, alcohol is cunning. Of the many times that I've relapsed, it often started with just one glass of wine. I thought that I'd be fine but several days later the cravings for booze became unbearable and I would inevitably start drinking "full-time" again. For me, even a little bit of alcohol awakens the devil that is addiction.
                              Thanks for the input. It's been a few days now and I'm still fine, conversely I feel almost more like the danger has passed, if anything. I also don't plan on doing so again any time soon. I think also the key for me was that I didn't drink nearly enough to get any sort of effect (I wasn't very clear in my description but the total amount of Al I consumed was probably no more than a third of standard drink over a couple of hours -I was very careful when pouring). I do appreciate the words of advice and concern though, from everyone.

                              I consider myself California sober because I still occasionally use gummies. My drug of choice is always alcohol. So I technically fight that every day. The gummies do not sit the same with me as alcohol and I can take them or leave them whereas alcohol draws me in.
                              Rava California Sober, hahaha, good phrase, I like that one. I am the same, use gummies once in a while but I'm really not drawn to them very often. I also use psychedlics occaisionally, but none of these are really addictive at all for me. I think for me too, the big difference is that I my body hasn't kindled itself to a crazy insane physical addiciton to these substances, like it did with alcohol. Alcohol (or downers) is just something I can't mess around with, I know that now after 20 years of worsening experience and ever deeper physical dependence.

                              Good morning cafe! Quiet here this morning, but the snow will be moving in later on. In my area we are only supposed to get around 6 inches or so but about an hour north of us folks may be getting 2-3 ft.of the white stuff. At least the skiers and snow lovers will be happy!​
                              Wow that is a boatload of snow. We finally got our first snowfall yesterday but it was only small dusting and now it's already gone again with the rain today.
                              Last edited by Mulburry; January 3, 2025, 09:49 PM.

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                                Goog morning cafe!

                                They are still getting pounded with Lake Effect snow just north of us. It's snowing hard here at the moment, but I doubt that we'll get nearly as much as our North country neighbors, who are buried in the white stuff.

                                Dill, I don't have to work until Monday so I don't have to go out in the cold and snow until then. Yay!

                                24 more for all of us please...

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